The “hapa” situation summed up:
Step 1) Be an undesirable white male (an incel; think of all the old men who go to Asia, for example; whenever you hear a western man complain about dating and being rejected for his looks, the almost 100% predictable response is: “go to Asia.”)
Step 2) Go for self-hating Asian woman for an asexual, status marriage, as your last resort, in order to get laid, because frankly, a white woman won’t have sex with you (I know it sounds racist, but it’s the harsh truth, and it’s unfair to the kids). Asian women will marry you, just because they don’t want sex, but want an easier life.
Step 3) Have kids (have sex maybe once) and produce – what, exactly? A supermodel?
People are so narcissistic that they don’t want to admit that people look like their parents. If you’re an unattractive white man with an Asian wife – there’s really no guarantee that your kids are going to be supermodels. You look like your parents. Add to this the fact that saying “Eurasians” are the most beautiful mix is just flat out racist, because I highly doubt they’d ever say this about half-black / half-Asian people. Or any other combination of individual ethnicities. People of all races have good looking, average, and ugly. They never, ever, say this about full Asians; in their mind – full Asian or Asian looking is unattractive. People just make stuff up to justify their fetishes.
Growing up in New York’s Chinatown, I never once encountered the kind of “we iz superior halfie” talk. When I first encountered it, a fairly unattractive half-Asian girl came up to me and said: “I bet your dad is white, right?” It immediately made my skin crawl – what kind of insecure person says stuff like that? Before then, I instinctively identified as Asian, maybe because I saw what a pathetic, battered, dead-bedroomed man by white dad was. Meanwhile, my Asian friends were all out having sex, despite having the worst possible stereotypes. As is the case in most thing, small dogs (“Wasians”) bark loudest. How I hate that term (“Wasians”). Imagine a grown man calling himself that.
I mentioned in my long blog post that growing up, I literally only knew biracials of all stripes (including Asians) who had white mothers. (Maybe this was just pure chance, or maybe it’s because biracials with white fathers don’t really make it very far in life). I suspect this fostered a positive, masculine mentality in my mind. After all, Obama said, having a white mother means that being a black male is cool, because, well, his own mother liked black men. Duh. Also, once again, I should mention my mother died early.
Back when I was single, and girls were asking me out, they all had a thing for Asian guys. Not mixed guys, but Asian. And they made it clear that they didn’t care about the culture, music, or even food. They just thought I was handsome and, yes, sexy. One girl, when I asked her why she liked me, put her fingers on my over pronounced Asian cheekbones and said “this.” I’ve talked a lot to other Asian guys, and a lot of them have similar experiences, mainly women, mostly non-Asian, going out of their way to get at us, while many Asian women aren’t as cordial.
I never went around screaming about being “Wasian,” or being a superior Eurasian. When I gain weight, I basically look full Asian, or at least so Asian that I’ve had Chinese American and Chinese Chinese people look at me and just say: “you’re Chinese, right?” For better or worse, I’ve had Asian women randomly say shit to me about how they don’t like that I look Asian; remember, when the ultimate goal is integration into whiteness – even slightly Asian looking is too much.
Anyways, a couple years ago, when I was in NYC, my girl and I walked for a few blocks in midtown and I counted like 2 dozen WMAF couples, and obviously a bunch of hapas, since we were near Korea town. All of the hapas (obviously, all WMAF) were totally alone. This is a common trend I see – half-Asian men being totally alone with a look of desperation on their face. Even weirder, is I noticed more AMAF (Asian man / Asian woman) and AMWF couples, than Hapa men with anyone. When I was in China, I saw the same thing; hapas alone, with thousands of AMAF couples. Online, you always see biracial Asian men talking about how no woman wants them, and blaming their Asian side.
As I said, it’s almost impossible for the typical “we hate Asian men” WMAF couples to produce a healthy biracial man, because he will be identified generally as Asian by society, or, if he looks more ambiguous, will suffer from the same weird “celibate” issues that their white fathers suffered from, as well as suffering from the feeling of self-loathing and insecurities that their mothers suffered from. People have a tendency to downplay just how much your parents’ dynamic affect your reality. No one really wants an insecure male.
Basically, if your mother adamantly refused to date an Asian man, only prefers white men, and your racist-ass, unattractive father tolerated this, out of his desire to get laid, I don’t really see how a half-Asian male could do well, and real life confirms this. People love feelings of power, and when you’re a white man with a self-loathing Asian wife, obviously this will dictate how kids turn out.
This idea that “all half-Asian men are super good looking and high flying” – has its roots in insecurity (insecure people tend to talk loudest), and this weird “culture” of je-ne-said-quoi WMAF, where white men and self hating Asian women tried to make this a reality to fulfill their biased end goal.
I mean, look at what a WMAF couple is. Really look at it. The sons will be a representation of that.
It’s weird, because I’ve noticed this trend of AMWF hapas playing the sons of WMAF couples on TV. This is because AMWF biracials (Asian father, white mother), aren’t burdened with this idea that being Asian is a cardinal sin. The show “Chucky” is a good example of this.
One last note is that I’ve always primarily identified as Asian, because I have no choice. Asian women have attacked me for looking Asian, too.
But, my mother was dead and had no influence on my life; I saw how abusive my mother and her sisters were to their white husbands (that they admitted they did not love) behind closed doors and my gut feeling was that these guys just couldn’t get laid; AND, I suspect, because I look way, way, way more on the Asian side, my gut feeling is that looking Asian and male allowed me to be poached by way more girls who actually loved and cared about me for free – rather than looking like an ambiguous half-Asian with nasty WMAF parents (Basically, a “knock off” white guy, but with way more insecurities to boot.)
My gut feeling is that no woman really wants a half-Asian guy. They’ll want an Asian guy, or a white guy, so why settle for something in the middle? I’ve never met a woman who wanted me because I was half-Asian. 100% of the time, it was because I looked more on the Asian side, or, more accurately: “Asian.”
The average half-Asian guy really is a dead in the water, sexually invisible, overcompensating forever alone type, and this really isn’t surprising why. Nor is it surprising why so many are loud mouthed, overcompensating, wannabe white boys. That, and there’s a ton of gay hapa males too, probably a result of the emasculation program done by their parents. I think it’s comical when people say half-Asian men are all top of their game playboys. Look at Joji, the singer, who sings about being cheated on and lonely and what not; then look at Zhu, a full Asian singer who sings about having women cheat with him. I guess that’s a perfect example of why I identify more with full Asians. I can’t relate to the Caucasian feeling of sexual angst that most biracial Asian men feel; but at the same time, when I see some forlorn looking, permasingle biracial, WMAF “Wasian,” I also get panic attacks.
Last bit: most hapa women date white men, and since many hapa women consider themselves unattractive, they associate white men with elevating their social status and sense of beauty. Also, since I suspect many half-Asian women are asexual like their mothers, they just go for white men – because asexuality and worshipping of whiteness are somehow linked. And hapa men, assuming they look more ambiguous, if they do manage to “date,” usually wind up with quite unattractive women. A lot are also gay – probably as a result of being so emasculated by their parents and society at large, and because I guess they gave up on trying to find a woman.
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