When our Asian parents’ entire goal in life is to escape Asianness and disconnect from it, sell their bodies and souls for money, in favor of ‘Americanizing’ and ‘whitening themselves up’ and totally, inexorably escaping their own culture in favor of whatever Americanization is?
Add to the fact that they marry a white partner who has a high chance of having zero empathy and being racist – what on earth is the half-Asian person supposed to do when someone bullies him or her? Because believe me – Asians and half-Asians get bullied worse than any other group on the planet.
My brother told me the other day he wants to look like an “all American boy.” Despite looking fully Asian and being a 40+ year old virgin Trump worshipper. Who taught him that? Who taught him that looking like an all-American right wing white boy was the end goal of life, despite the fact that there’s not a woman alive who is turned on by that aesthetic?
If this is the end goal – to just turn Asians white – then why not just go in-vitro?
I think this is the reason why so many WMAF couples (in the event they even have sex) – hope for daughters, not sons. Daughters are way easier to integrate into whiteness and marry off to white men with money and privilege. Half-Asian sons are hit or miss; our entire existence banks off of “being hot,” but when your dad is an ugly white man rejected by white women, this oftentimes doesn’t work, since the son isn’t hot. Add to it the mental strain of being half-Asian with white supremacist parents, most half-Asian men wind up total messes, or gay – probably a result of being exposed to such in-their-face emasculation, golddigging, and nihilistic mate-selection. My mother repeatedly told me she hated my father and never loved him, even once; it’s a miracle I turned out straight and still into women after that.
White Dad Asian Mom - "I'm Not Racist, My Wife is Asian!" 