The hapa “dating scene” is a comical mess (and a lot of hapa males are gay)

For reference, I’ve “dated” all types of girls, but basically, I’d be a virgin if it weren’t for women asking me out. It turns out that this was more of an Asian experience, something that I learned from my Asian friends. Girls can be sort of aggressive towards us, maybe because they think we’re shy. I literally have zero preference for what race women are and I’ve always thought people who focused on this were weird.

I mention that because I immediately get called “incel” whenever I talk about how weird hapas are. Whatever. I’m obsessed with this topic because I think the kind of casual racism that gets passed around by a group of people who are supposed to be “post racial” makes my stomach churn. Also since my kids will pass as full Asian, I want to prepare them for a world where this kind of thing is a reality. I also literally had a stereotypical racist white dad / screaming, suicidal, murderous Chinese tiger mom, so I know what that kind of hellish scenario can do to ones’ mind. I’ve always been super proud to be Chinese and the fact that there are hapas out there who can’t get laid despite claiming that they’re “master race Eurasians,” and badmouthing full Asians in every other breath while literally worshipping the ground that white men walk on – makes me uncomfortable and very much alarmed. Part of my super proudness about being Chinese is because my mother literally hated my father for being white, since “white men didn’t know how to study.” Why she married him? I don’t know, I guess she was unattractive.

A lot of what I think saved me from the fate of some really, really, really sad sack hapas (the kind you see around with no maidens, taking selfies in their car asking people to ‘guess their phenotype’ and other weird, desperate, sad sack sh*t), is simply associating with Asian men, so that I ultimately understand I was living the Asian male experience, not the ‘mixed race’ one. Getting pursued aggressively by women is the biggest slap in the face in terms of reality, because you soon realize you’re in a different boat from 99% of guys, so I think it makes guys – myself included – who fall into this rare quality, much more aware of the dark, ugly reality of the world, compared to so called “happy hapas” who never once got asked to their face by a woman to “F her brains out” (like I have, several times), and so don’t understand just how fake and terrible everything else is in comparison.

For reference, I don’t know a single hapa girl who dates hapa men. I’ve never seen it despite what people claim online. I know over a dozen AMWF hapas and none of them like Asian men, so it’s not a stretch of imagination to think that the WMAF hapas don’t (actually, I got stalked by a WMAF hapa girl who was clearly not interested in her white husband, and I’ve heard from Asian guys about hapa girls basically throwing themselves at them – but I can’t say I’ve ever seen an AMWF hapa do this). On subs like /r/mixedrace, there are always posts by hapa girls who ask “is it strange that I only date white men?” or, posts where hapa girls complain about how their white boyfriend is racist (something I’m familiar, given that my dad was racist, my aunt’s boyfriends were racist).

I’ve written a lot at how I suspect white men’s racism comes from their inability to actually sexually consummate with women, so it makes them bitter and unable to empathize. I think this happens a lot with hapa men, too. I’m saying, yeah, basically, even despite being in relationships, I don’t think white guys really ever get women truly desiring them, and this makes them racist. It took me 30 to realize that even people in relationships can be miserable and not have sex, and this is why my dad was so miserable. I think a lot of hapa males also are unable to truly empathize for the same reason: they view life as just a cutthroat competition, taking L’s and faking W’s until they can maybe, just maybe, raise their shot of getting laid or whatever from 0% to 0.1%. As I said, being poached by women aggressively (I have insane stories) makes you really, really, really, keenly aware of the world and I think, a lot more empathetic, for a lot of reasons (one of them is being bullied by incels and femcels who can take one look at you and see you smush immediately).

I’ve also mentioned that a lot of Asian and hapa girls and other non-white women who are literally asexual, all go for white men. I don’t know why that is. I think with such a cutthroat, asexual attitude towards life, they view social ascension as taking priority over love. (On the other hand, I’ve had girls basically come after me and other Asian guys primarily for sex – and none of them ever mentioned that they liked that I was mixed. They all were with Asian guys). There’s an incredibly overlap between asexuality, homosexuality, and this preference for white men – like, being with a white man represents “being included,” but disregards all of the better aspects about being alive on this planet (namely, loving everyone equally).

Given this is the situation with hapa girls, and many hapa girls have brothers, I can’t even imagine the psychosis going on with hapa guys. Some hapa girl on /r/hapas told me that “women care about kindness, and being provided with a stable life,” but then I think back to how Elliot Rodger’s sister was having loud sex in the house while he was there and I’m like, nah. I honest to God don’t think most hapa men can endure the kind of things they go through as a half-Asian male living around self-hating Asian women. Life is a sexual battleground, despite people claiming otherwise, and women can and will have loud, aggressive sex in the proximity of male relatives or friends – usually doing this with attractive guys – and leaving a lot of men out in the cold. This conscious or subconscious emasculation is more than enough to castrate some men and turn them gay, as a trauma response. As I mentioned – women are very, very, very aggressive to “hot” men, and I know this from experience, having had women ask me, to my face, to take them home and F them. Obviously, this doesn’t happen to most men, and you can tell this just by looking at a man’s “swag.” And obviously, the opposite of “swag” is probably, just, well…. “gay.”

Having been around a lot, I can’t ever really say I’ve known a hapa guy who has done very well with women, probably as a result of the interracial dynamic of their parents – white man (oftentimes racist and unattractive), and self-loathing Asian woman. I’m not sure why anyone would think a hapa son would be okay, given that most people identify us as Asian. I see a lot of these hapa guys online, and they claim they’re fine, but they wind up inevitably being gay or transitioning into women, likely as a result of their failure to self-actualize as a sexual male. Some black women I talked to on LipStickAlley call this the “biracial to gay pipeline.” Unfortunately, it seems extremely common among biracial Asians, either due to being so turned off by their mother’s vicious treatment of the father, or because they are so severely emasculated and bullied for being Asian in the same environment that their mothers and sisters were trying to integrate into, that many half-Asian men take to being with men to find love and companionship. I even have a completely neutral Asian female friend who mentioned that she noticed that a lot of hapa men were gay.

When you take into fact that a huge number of mixed race people are gay, it makes way more sense that they are adamantly so defensive of their white fathers and white men in general – after all, white men dominate the gay dating hierarchy, as that community is notoriously racist; convenient, because incels are also notoriously racist, especially against Asian men.

Coincidence?

You gotta remember, society is already racist against Asian men and this is not going to stop, like, ever; and to have women in your family actively declare they find Asian men unattractive for no reason (well, there are reasons, which they won’t admit; namely that Asian men are low status), it will have profound psychological effects on the children.

Another possible reason for so many mixed race men being gay, is because they firsthand witness the cold-blooded, gold-digging methodology of their Asian mothers (where they marry a white incel and categorically pretend that they are doing the best possible thing in life), and this may convince many young hapa men that love and desire from a woman isn’t real. Not even to be homophobic, but since there isn’t a gay gene, it seems entirely likely that it’s wholly psychological. And I think that it’s possible that trauma from witnessing a mother completely incapable of love, empathy or desire for a man, can make a boy hate women so much that he seeks a rather beautiful respite in male companionship.

Severe lack of popular, mainstream Asian-looking WMAF hapas and biracials

Can you guess why this is?

Society is racist against Asian males, but makes an exception for Asian women.

Asian women prefer, en masse, to marry white males – precisely because society is racist against Asian males, and they have been doing this for decades. There are hapas now that are in their 40’s. Hell, that’s not true, there are hapas in their 70’s, from the second world war.

So…. where are they?

A lot of people like to cite white passing hapas as proof of success. Guys like Nathan Adrian. But at least half of hapas look predominantly Asian. And so, where are they?

Well, the reality is, that they don’t become successful.

Because when your mother is actively working to “whiten” and “remove” your Asian heritage, “Americanize” and assimilate you, yet you get bullied and have to deal with endless harassment and racism for being Asian – how would you ever be able to overcome that? By relying on your (maybe racist) white father? Or… your white-supremacist Asian mother who wants you to have light hair, light eyes, and pass off as white at all costs, and goes out of her way to integrate with whites at all costs, which means talking down about Asian males as part of her assimilation routine?

Here’s a good example: Darren Criss, an actor who literally admitted that he’s glad he doesn’t look Asian. This is basically the metric for success for biracials. What a wonderful world we live in.

I often wonder how WMAF couples are able to have the audacity to think that WMAF hapa sons don’t notice these things. How could we not? It’s central to our identity. The fact that Asian women are world famous for marrying white, and only white men, with the ideal being to assimilate and avoid Asianness, how on earth could a half-Asian, particularly one who looks Asian, be able to overcome this?

White supremacists try to pit WMAF half-Asians against BMWF mulattoes

There’s a war of insecurity going on race-related, white supremacist spaces. As with all things, it’s related to sex. And sex and power are intricately linked.

Insecure white and hapa men, intimidated by white women sleeping with black men, try to compare the half-Asian children of white men and Asian women, with the “inferior” children of black men and white women.

They like to push the idea that half-black children born of the enemy, black men and white women, are inherently inferior to the children born of superior white men and their ‘replacement’ white women (“traditional, chaste, submissive’ Asian women).

But it’s not about reality. In fact there are probably 1,000x more half-black people in popular culture and sports than there are half-Asians. For a number of reasons, probably mostly because having a racist unattractive white dad and racist Asian mom isn’t really conducive to being successful, especially if you’re not white by any technicality. Even Obama said that his mother taught him that being a black guy was cool. What do WMAF couples teach their kids? That being white is cool; but we’re not white.

Again, like most of what racists push, it’s not about reality. It’s about basically incel white men being insecure about “BBC” and trying to find solace in their “BWC colonialist” fantasies about Asian women (the only women they can maximize their whiteness with). It’s staggeringly racist and it’s comical that it even exists and nobody talks about it. Now we’re just left with millions of Eurasians born from white supremacist parents, one of which isn’t even white.

WMAF couples hope for half-Asian daughters over half-Asian sons

All you have to do to shut down racist interracial couples is to remind them that their children will generally have a 50% chance to look like the gender-racial combo that they hate.

I recently learned that my mother had resented that she had two sons, and this would explain why she attempted to kill me several times by driving at erratic speeds while literally screaming she was going to kill me.

This makes sense. The average WMAF couple is rooted in the idea that the male in the relationship not be Asian, and be white. The white guy, of course, looking for his chance to feel desirable for once in his life and take revenge on those slutty white women who rejected him, hates Asian men because it makes him feel powerful to “cuck” Asian men, as opposed to himself being passed over and “cucked.” People in general are incredibly insecure, and look for any opportunity to punch down to feel better. Oftentimes, the Asian wife doesn’t even really help him feel big, since A) she won’t touch him, and B), unfortunately she’s just a backup plan.

Obviously they want cute hot Asian daughters, not sons. The idea of a half-Asian son looking too Asian throws a wrench in the idea of a white-male-supremacist relationship in which the Asian woman is bussed in to secure white male dominance.

There’s no world in which the average WMAF couple wants Asian sons; the idea is to reward white maleness, and Asian women just happen to be the ones most willing to do so.

What is yellow fever / an Asian fetish? (From a half-Asian males perspective)

An Asian fetish, demonstrated usually by a white male, is the idea that Asian women will give him the time of day when every other woman proves too “slutty” or “picky” to appreciate him and his whiteness. But in reality, he’s just unattractive.

Yellow fever is just guys who cannot get non-Asian girls, let’s be honest. Racial preferences IRL make a lot of people uncomfortable because any straight guy generally will find all types of women attractive. I have a good friend who only went for Asian or half-Asian girls, because 1) he tried to get white girls but was getting rejected (he was a decent looking guy) and 2) his sister was dating a black guy, and a lot of white guys feel intimidated by this.

Every single time, and this is not hyperbolic, there is discussion about what white men should do, when they fail with white women – Asian women (East and Southeast) are suggested. No matter how big a failure a man is – he is suggested to “go East.” They literally suggest outsourcing their worst, most unbangable, oftentimes hyper-racist men, to Asian women; and now there are millions of kids born from these men.

He gets to “save” her from misogynistic Asian males while being able to leverage his whiteness onto her to feel powerful and unapologetically white, and unchallenged, when no other woman will take him.

It’s no coincidence that almost every single male that fails to function at a high level and suffers from some sort of crippling ailment that affects how he demonstrates himself as a “man,” winds up developing an “Asian fetish.” When you have a male who is almost inexorably “weird” or unattractive – along comes the Asian wife.

What do Asian women get out of it? Well, a lot see a sexless, asexual, totally invisible male as a good thing, as long as they get white children and social inclusion out of it – without having to have sex. Many if not most WMAF couples do not have sex. We, the children, get nothing out of it, other than broken homes, weird parents, and self-loathing. Why on earth would a half-Asian male EVER be proud of coming from a literal incel father, and a self-loathing Asian mother?

WMAF don’t have sex

For some reason when celibate, unattractive white guys wind up with Asian women, going into it think they’re getting some traditional, submissive sex doll, but instead get an antagonistic, domineering, asexual woman who only married them precisely not to have sex, it makes these guys abusive at best, or more insane and over the top racist at worst. Stephen Paddock and David Chapman (the guy who killed WMAF John Lennon) come to mind.

Asians are some broken, toxic people, and it’s not fair to biracials, and this dynamic plays a big role in why many half-Asians are mentally broken. There has been no real benefit, at all, to being biracial, and maybe at best, some benefit in being an Asian guy.

Basically, some, but not all Asian girls (but especially the ‘white only’ types) can be pretty nasty for no real reason other than the fact that they’re totally asexual and self loathing – I am not exaggerating. I don’t know, but they come across many times as masculine and almost incelly. Asian guys will dump Asian women for being nasty or not putting out. Femcels, basically. I know more than a few guys who just couldn’t take the Asian woman’s behavior and sexual coldness and had to drop her. I know a couple very, very toxic Asian women who tried dating Asian guys but these women just always get dumped. My cousin is a 42 year old virgin and I’m pretty sure her aunt is like a 64 year old virgin…. the only guys who take them are these really rejected white men, or guys who got divorce-“raped” by white women. Both of their partners have ‘issues;’ one is a white guy who my cousin refuses to bring around to our gatherings because in her words, he’s ‘too ugly.’ In the other case, the guy was so traumatized by his (white) ex-wife taking his shit and leaving him, a 20 year dead bedroom relationship with an overtly hostile Chinese woman who can’t stop attacking him every 30 seconds with the most vicious words on hand, is a better deal. The common trend is that these women generally are extremely hostile and nasty to a shocking degree. Domineering, asexual, insulting, and crude.

Asian women in turn will date loser-ish white guys (who can’t get white girls, and are pissed that white girls like having sex with attractive men) because they can force the white guys into a dead-bedroom and not get cheated on. They can be as cruel and nasty as they want. The white guys who are desperate tolerate it because they have to, at least they have a “pretty face” (open to interpretation) that they can pretend they’re in a relationship with, when no other woman will take them. In many cases, the uglier and more desexual the white guy the better, because she gets what she needs: whiter children, social ascension, and doesn’t have to have sex.

On the other hand, non-Asian women are pretty forward about physical attraction being important; which excludes a lot of undesirable white men – such as Michel Houellebecq, OG king of incels, or Woody Allen, or Nicholas Cage, or any slew of alt-right fringe racist weirdos who hate “modern culture” (i.e., sexual culture). And these guys go for totally asexual Asian women who don’t care that these men are of negative sexuality. Asian women tend to hate Asian men being sexual, and maybe even hate that Asian men ARE more sexual than them, and that non-Asian women can love and desire an Asian man more than she can. This is the reason why WMAF couples always seem to have this incel like rage at Asian men and white women. Because that’s literally what they are.

One more thing; the astronomical rates of weird behavior in WMAF couples (including violence) is rooted in the complete lack of sex, love, and respect, which is at bare minimum normal in most normal couples.

You may think that I’m exaggerating, but as an Asian looking half-Asian, I assure you, that Asian women (in particular, the WMAF kind) in general, are the odd ones out, with the casually “cruel” and vicious way they put me down, compared to literally every other race of woman – and men, except for the incel loser males who could only get Asian women. Growing up around them will alter your brain to start to think that life is hell.

Right wing and white supremacist Half-Asians

I think this is something that everyone should know, and it has always been my moral duty for everyone to know. Shamefully, I went through a stage where I was “far right,” but only as a result of my father’s and my white family’s influence. I felt insecure about not being “white,” basically, so I overcompensated.

There’s a lot of right wing, white supremacist half Asians out there. I went through a Neo-Nazi phase myself because I was under the influence of my father, and I feel incredible shame about this. I wanted to be white. My father and family were openly proud to be white and was the typical “decline of the west” type. I had friends in college who introduced me to “Jewish conspiracies” while simultaneously subtly bullying me for being Asian, and this led me to become deeply insecure about being Asian.

Basically, there’s no point in being half white, when you can be full white, and not half-Asian, because being Asian is seen as weird and non-masculine on a male, and there’s so much bullying against Asians. That’s why so many half-Asians act like off brand “white guys,” because our mothers raised us to be this way; after all, our mothers believed marrying a white man was a superior option to marrying an Asian man, “for an easier life of white privilege” – which is why most half-Asians are pretty much de facto white supremacist “Whasians” (even that term is cringe and only exists because most of us are half white).

Our fathers went for Asian women as a way to “take back power” from “slutty traitorous white women.” A lot of white men resent white women for having sex with, let’s just use the most common example – black or Hispanic men. In their mind, they are so traumatized by the sexuality of “non traditional” white women who are not attracted to them, that they will tolerate a completely asexual dead bedroom with a vicious, upwardly climbing Asian woman who doesn’t love them, just out of loneliness and a feeling of power and revenge.

So, when they have kids, I’ve seen white men name their sons ridiculous names like “Maximus” or “Augustus.” They’re so insecure and narcissistic they want their half-Asian sons to “carry on the legacy of the west,” after white women “betrayed” them (simply by not finding them attractive).

A lot of half-Asians who look ambiguous, white, or whatever, wind up never really actualizing and just going along with this, being full blown right wing, anti-POC, anti-Asian, and just supporting every ludicrous right wing talking point under the sun. Asian-knockoff white guys, basically. A lot inherit the very ice-cold pragmatism of Asians and the “bootstraps” mentality of boomer whites, and have this equally asexual, conservative outlook on life, where they just have to ape white masculinity and throw money at women to get them, the entire time being deeply insecure about being Asian through their mothers who are very open about not loving their fathers.

Guys who women genuinely sexually desire have a tendency to not care so much. Life is about love, so, again, this just proves many half-Asians are just as incel as their fathers.

The Half-Asian issue in a couple of paragraphs

I was and to this day, am still severely bullied because I am of Asian (Chinese) heritage, probably because of my Asian first name. Some of my bullies were actually Asian women who are the kinds who only date white men; one girl told me I would “need to go to China to get laid.” I’ve overheard, 100’s of times, racial comments against Asian men, including some from Asian women in my family. I’ve heard anti-Asian comments from non-Asian guys, who could only get Asian women, and were insecure about not being desired by non-Asian women. It’s a terrible burden to bear. For most half-Asians, there is no real pride in being Asian, when our mothers themselves, did not want to be Asian, and wanted to be white.

It’s not rocket science. Why would I, a half-Asian, be even remotely proud of being Asian, when Asian people are more than happy to marry the worst, most horrible non-Asian men around, simply to escape being Asian?

These women enter into pragmatic, loveless, asexual relationships with, and have children, sometimes, if not mostly with white men, sometimes questionable white men (e.g., those weirdo, creepy, undesirable guys who hated ‘slutty’ white women and wanted an easy replacement – aka, cheating natural selection). Hapa men generally do not look white, and even if we did, the burden of trying to deal with our toxic parents, as well as ‘hiding’ our shame at our heritage, is overbearing. Many biracials are insecure about being half-Asian, due to it usually being our mothers who are Asian, and our Asian mothers (but I have seen this with Asian fathers) trying to shame us away from our heritage. Either way, it can’t be argued that we’re white by any metric, and generally Asian is seen as a negative in the west.

The common argument I run across is that “not all hapas look Asian.” Which proves my point – the metric for being a ‘good’ and ‘happy’ half-Asian is to not look too Asian, or basically be a male model. That’s a terrible, terrible mind-f*ck for many biracial Asians, especially when non-Asians and even Asians consider us Asian, when convenient. Besides, it is incredibly racist to suggest that we’re ‘better off’ because we’re half white, and in fact this is what most of our parents tell us, no matter how broken, weird, and miserable our parents really are. That’s it.

The emasculation of half-Asian men by their own parents

Let’s just run this down as simply as possible:

It’s well known that there’s a subset of Asian women who prefer white men and whiteness, and are vicious towards Asian men. Left to their own devices, Asian men won’t exist – so who is to replace them?
That means that half-Asian children are born, and the sons, in particular, are not white men. Some look white-er, but aren’t white, and look slightly “Asian” compared to white men (the ideal). Others look non-white. Others look straight up Asian. The idea isn’t really to have half-Asian children, but white children. The idea is to marry up. Only whiteness is worthy of reproducing. Call me an “incel” all you want but even they admit this themselves.
Since Asian men are seen as undesirable by their own mothers, growing up under these conditions (in particular the “je ne sais quois” of WMAF) – where your parents have total sway over your development – leads to subconscious emasculation.

My female Asian friend mentioned that half-Asians and mixed race people seem to have tendency to be gay and / or trans more often. It sounds non-PC, but I wonder if being hammered in the face by WMAF your entire life has any result in this. Even for me, it was an uphill battle to accept myself, and it was entirely because of the support of kind non-Asians (mostly women) that I was able to. Other half-Asians adopt a similar white supremacist, cutthroat, “take what you can get,” money hungry view of life, posturing themselves as “almost white.” Between those two groups, I don’t think there are many variations on this model.

I need to remind you – as a half-Asian male – I too have faced mockery and discrimination for being half-Asian, by Asian women. Things are rough out there, sexually, at least. This world really is a meat grinder, financially, socially, and yeah, sexually.

The thing is that I think hook-up culture rewards guys who are sexy. The guys who aren’t sexy, are the guys who go for Asian women, and who Asian women go for – because Asian women don’t like sex, and Asian men are seen as cheaters. So you have a lot of older, less desirable, balder white guys with Asian wives – that raise half Asian kids in a non-Asian world that rewards attractive people.

What saved me? Well, for one, maybe being on the taller side? I’ve heard everything from “you don’t look Chinese at all,” to “you blend in very well with Asians.” Then again, I must reiterate that my Asian mother, having died, had no influence on my life, so I was more confident in being Asian, and was with many women who had a history of also liking Asian guys. I had no support, at all, from Asians, when it came to my toxic parents and my self-loathing issues.

So, I’m not sure. From what I understand at a baseline level – if your mother is one of those Asian women who really, really, really thinks that marrying a white man is her only real option in life (for social standing, integration, etc)., and you’re mixed, well, obviously it’s going to affect how you turn out. Especially if you identify as an Asian man, and your parents’ entire marriage was based on the idea that the man not be Asian.

Censorship on /r/hapas

/r/hapas prior to 2018 or so actually discussed a lot of the real issues that were plaguing the Asian community and the biracial community – namely gendered racism and how a large chunk of half-Asian men were suffering from racism against them by the same society that fetishized and glorified Asian women. There were so many male and female biracials there that were voicing legitimate concerns and emotions about microaggressions, racism, and stupid dumb things people in our family, even Asians, and our often ignorant and racist white fathers, said. In fact, many of the earliest bloggers of the Eurasian experience were actually half-Asian women.

What happened? When did talking about your racist white dad and self-loathing Asian mother become so wrong?

Well, we made the mistake that thinking that self-hating half-Asians would somehow take our side. It was literally the opposite.

/R/hapas got taken over by very insecure hapas / biracials who relied heavily on “myths” of half-Asian handsomeness in order to get laid (though I highly doubt they are). That’s about it. They were concerned that “showing weakness” and complaining lowered the global status of Eurasian people. They didn’t care at all about full Asians, and you can see see that kind of glib mockery of the subject:

“You’re only half Asian though.”

“You’re not really Asian though.”

“I’m not Asian,” is the calling card of many insecure hapas. Their entire presentation revolves around not being Asian, because they’re insecure about being Asian. They need Asians to be beneath them, because like everyone else on this planet, they’re held hostage by life and need every opportunity and leg up they can get. Like 90% of men, 90% of biracial Asians struggle with women and don’t know what it means to be genuinely loved and genuinely sexually desired by a woman (like their fathers were not genuinely loved), so they simply have a robotic response to anything they perceive as “counter culture,” out of fear of losing the 1% chance of getting laid. Half-Asian girls, obviously, are primed by their mothers to seek integration and social ascendancy at all costs, (yes, at the cost of love; believe me, I have multiple Asian women in my family who admitted they never loved their husbands), and can’t afford to have these discussions. Don’t believe the hype: half-Asian men are not doing well on the romantic front.

The irony of all of this is that when you actually do get loved as an Asian looking male, you tend to not be so afraid of showing weakness, cause ultimately it doesn’t matter. So, in the end it just confirms what I thought. Most hapas like many biracials are deeply insecure soft-incels who throw around the term “incel” because they’re afraid of it and are afraid of any hard discussion. The one thing I learned from all of this is that the idea of being sexually desirable to women is so alien to so many men that their minds are quite literally shaped and molded by this idea, so that they are virtually incapable of breaking the box of thought patterns as told them by ultra-capitalist society.

When I first got doxxed, some people who saw my photo who were interested in that whole debacle, just said “take one look at him and you immediately can tell he’s nowhere near an incel” – which is true. I guess the fact that I’m popular with women BECAUSE I’m Asian (not because I’m mixed race), gave me the balls to stand up for Asians regardless of the consequences. Actually, now that I think about it, my experiences with how aggressive women are aligns more with the Asian male experience than it does with biracials, who are nothing but insecure, self-loathing overcompensating liars for the most part.

I thought this was an interesting post. This guy is an Asian passing half-Asian guy. His experiences sort of match up with mine. A lot of the harassment I’ve gotten (even from other hapas, and from self-loathing Asian women) has been directly as a result of my Asian looks and how insane non-Asian women can be towards me. Since I was a kid, I was fully aware that my experiences were a result of being Asian in appearance. Both the racism, as well as the insane sexual advances of non-Asian women; I never even considered myself “mixed” in this regard.

Maybe, as a result of being “hot” I felt invincible and just felt I could get away with anything I said, and to be fair, I can, as awful as it sounds (in reality, experiences like this are a huge liability and a massive mind-f*ck, because it really affects how I perceive the world). I have the balls to stand up for what I feel is right (mainly fighting against anti-Asian-male discrimination). But I can see now how a lot of insecure, ambiguous looking hapas who never experienced any of this, would need to cling to his “image” as a harmless, “almost white,” “hot” hapa who will just completely gas over racism, even from his parents.

Last but not least, I’m not being homophobic, but an inordinate amount of “happy hapas” seem to be gay hapa men, probably a result of being severely emasculated and rejected by women, and the gay community is famously racist, with white men at the top, so there’s a lot of overlap with hapas having a tendency to being “pro-white,” whether they’re libs or on the far-right. So I suppose if you’re a gay hapa male who likes to be with white men, you simultaneously solve your “alienation and racism” problems inherent to many hapa men, and you also don’t find any problem with white supremacy, since you yearn to be a part of it yourself. And of course, it goes without saying that a lot of hapa women dating white men because they feel unattractive and think that being in an asexual relationship with a white man will make them “feel whole.” It’s a mess.