I wasn’t even looking for this but I follow basketball on Youtube and the algorithm recommended me this video, and it’s just an ordinary video with some white wahmen shooting basketball, so I thought oh, that’s probably why it’s popular.
Then Mr. Wasian there pops up and gets rejected, which was the real reason it went viral.
Here’s a real horror of this, because I’m a half Asian and I’ve been asked out by “hotter” white women and I never said yes because for most of my life I thought Asian and black girls were prettier. At this point in my life I know that if you’re being rejected like the ‘Wasian’ there, you’re probably way past the point of ever being chosen by a woman like I was.
/r/hapas used to suggest that white women were boycotting half Asian sons of WMAF on principle (because of the anti-feminist dad), but now I genuinely think it’s because the white dad’s poor looks were inherited by the son.
Since after all, anti-feminist white passport bros are doing it because their heckin’ white wahmen didn’t want them for their looks, so there’s an entire demographic of chopped half Asian guys with white dads and self-hating Asian moms now, continuing the cycle of their dads.
Self hating Asians are the most obsessed with having mixed babies, like Arthur Liu.
And the only reason these Asians are self hating is because they’re physically ugly or were treated poorly by other Asians (probably due to their looks), but in the real world, people (especially Asians) make value judgements based on objective facial attractiveness. Case in point, this guy has no facial harmony, no cheekbones, nothing. I don’t think people realize how vicious life is, especially towards chopped men I live in China and see 10,000 happy couples a day where the woman is clearly happy with the man’s face, since in China people can’t shut up about good looking men and women.
As a result, most mixed race Asians are unattractive, and no, it’s not subjective, because I was told I was hot by girls when I was like 11, by everyone except – surprise, surprise, Asian women. And guess what? My crazy feminist Asian mom hated that about me. I guess she preferred I was born a girl, or chopped and gay, because of her deep seated issues with the behavior of hot Asian guys.
Which is really bad, because in 2026 the only people (guys especially) who women like are all hot guys (look at how Kpop guys are treated versus other men), while every other guy has a long and hard life throwing money at women who don’t love them; my mom and her sisters all admitted they never loved their white husbands.
Arthur Liu (Alysia Liu’s dad) wanted female babies, and had 6 with an IVF white female donor, probably because he knew his sons would inherit his looks and have a hard time. Even my ultra -feminist mom told me she wanted daughters, not sons, but parented my brother and I differently, coddling him, while hating me, because I guess she noticed white / black girls liked my Asian bone structure (they’ve literally told me this to my face, the Kpop craze confirmed it).
If you’re not “hot” as a man in life, women can never really truly love you, so a lot of half-Asian guys wind up racist, right-wing, into extreme behaviors, or gay, or all of the above.
Just so people know, I don’t hate or care much about LGBT people, I think they should be protected, granted every right and celebrated as much as possible, but I only push this because I have a vendetta against white worshipping Asians who think that their children will naturally become super human alpha males who will rule the world, when in fact, the world doesn’t work like that. You know how the world really operates? On very unfair superficial principles.
The other day at the mall in China, within 5 minutes I saw this extremely tired looking unattractive bearded white guy with a Chinese woman who clearly didn’t care about him, and then this half Asian femboy walking around all alone.
Here’s the HARSH reality of life and about the half-Asian thing.
I’m half Asian but pass as full, got bullied for it my whole life even by self hating Asian women. Noticed a lot of half Asian guys are gay, right wing, weird, or all of the above. Makes sense. Life is very hard, a lot of Asian women marry unattractive weird white men for the money, my mom and aunts all admitted they never loved their white husbands, because they’re unattractive (even to non-Asian women), obviously, but provide utility, and are easy to control, unlike Asian men.
Half Asian sons come out carrying their dads genes, get ignored by women their whole lives, or used by women, and their moms just abuse their dads and formed a relationship entirely on utility, so the sons have a completely warped perspective on heterosexual love, probably not even believing a woman can love a man, not that it would matter, because women aren’t even attracted to them anyways especially in the western world where women (the same women that rejected our dads) just hate every guy who isn’t hot.
As an Asian looking guy, I’ve had non-Asian women chase me down and ask me to sleep with them, some of them have boyfriends, even had half Asian women try this with their half-Asian or white boyfriends who had high paying jobs. (My feminist mom noticed this about me early and absolutely hated me for it).
These guys were all rich, these women straight up told me they were using them for money. These guys have no idea and even if they did they couldn’t do anything cause they’re not hot enough to be able to do anything. So a lot of these guys just date men because they’re easier and less demanding than women.
That’s where all those memes come from like “she cheated so you go find out what the hype was about.” Women are picky, you either have to be hot or be really rich and even then they don’t want these guys. So half-Asian sons come out with no women wanting them and trust me, if you’re a hot guy women will just tell you your whole life from your teenaged years until you’re old.
I was like 11 when girls were calling me hot, finding my little shitty websites and leaving comments about how hot I wa, first time I got catcalled was waiting for the bus when I was like 12 or 13 by a group of girls, and these same girls were ignoring every other guy in my class I’m sure most hot Asian guys can confirm this is fact.
Sorry, life is really hard and unfair like that. Asian women basically sell out their sons’ happiness for money. It is what it is.
This half Asian woman (I don’t know if her dad is Asian or mom is Asian, for some reason she gives me Asian dad vibes) openly brags about her racism, I know we’ve all seen this before so let me just cut to the gist of it.
She goes on her whole screed of “love is love, mixing is great, it’s not about race” until someone, including myself said, “you LITERALLY said it’s about race as long as it’s not Asian men.”
The rest of the comments are stuff like “imagine if white women said that about white men.”
I made the usual comments about her being ugly and bitter but she didn’t seem to get it, and of course she’s really into Trump and other kicking out immigrants and my guess is she picked it up from her Caucasian husband.
She also bragged about how people think her sons are “tall and handsome” till I told her I’d be 100 bucks at least one of them is gay and she flipped her gasket and started calling me a psycho, so my guess is I was probably right since women get insanely angry when you just say the truth. My honest guess is she’s some insane golddigging hapa woman with some rich husband who just says insanely racist shit on Twitter for her sons and brothers to read and the mental damage of having to witness that is more than enough to turn half-Asian sons off of the idea of women being capable of anything remotely loving, let alone nice.
Let me cut to the chase here: she’s a racist, plain and simple, and the fact that only Asian men are subjected to this is insane, especially since, I, a half-Asian guy, have heard from Asian (and non-Asian) women that they don’t like Asian men.
The funny thing is that she’s already mixed, and if you scroll through her comments she admits that her brother is still single, which is hilarious, because by her logic her brother is an unmarriageable incel because he’s (half) Asian. Of course, being totally devoid of empathy for her own brother I highly doubt she gives a single shit about her sons, who are probably bullied and deeply insecure about being Asian.
Think about it this way, how genuinely insane this and what damage it does to half Asian guys with moms like this. This is why so many half-Asian guys are complete messes, it’s not even racial confusion at this point, it’s their mother’s complete insane nihilism where she feels perfectly fine pushing stuff like this online.
I’ve had multiple Asian women in my family admit to me at several different points that they never loved their white husbands, maybe because they saw how I was struggling with my ethnicity, but I think also women tend to open up to me more because I inherited pretty Asian male features so I’m fully aware of women’s true nature. The thing is, women reading this KNOW I’m telling the truth. Even my mom would literally bully my dad WHILE HE WAS EATING to the point he covered his face with his hand during dinner.
But most white guys can’t deal with it and they marry some asexual, man-hating Asian golddigger that is only with them for the money, but Asian women can just have zero filter so it will slip out that she says something to his face like “I never loved you,” or “the kids aren’t yours,” or something like that.
That’s why there are SO MANY cases of Asian women getting murdered by their white man, and the kids sometimes get smoked too, maybe cause of infidelity. Asian women are just so notoriously pragmatic about life that marrying some ugly incel racist white guy is just seen as the “thing to do,” love be damned.
That’s why so many half Asian guys are gay. Being told from day one that “race doesn’t matter” but your mom literally married a white guy ONLY for the money or ONLY because he’s white, must be so confusing. Imagine having it shoved in your face since day one that women don’t actually love, let alone like men; it’s probably so cataclysmic for hapa males, and many swear off the idea of legitimate, heterosexual love completely.
On top of that, life is extremely hard. In 2026 to get a woman you basically have to be extremely rich or extremely pretty, which is why so many rich white guys want Asian women; because even the money can’t save them from women’s facial pickiness. So now the sons are born with their white dad’s narrow ugly faces just because their Asian moms picked an ugly dude for the money. And the sons are, for lack of a better word, completely fucked and wind up just throwing money at white women and attending little stupid Wasian parties.
NVIDIA CEO Jensen Huang’s half-Asian daughter is with a white guy while his son is still single. This is the same guy who “inspires” all the chopped Asian men in the west to become billionaires and throw money at white women.
I find that funny because it’s the pattern I’ve seen my whole life, half Asian girls all wound up with white guys in a world that is 10% white, and half Asian guys are all single into late adulthood, I’ve seen this at my college 20 years ago and today. This is regardless if their dads or moms are Asian.
What’s even funnier to me is that how Wasian men claim they’re all so good looking and rich and even with all that money have even lower marital rates than full Asian men. The more I actually sit down and talk to Wasian guys, the more I realize how hard so many of them openly cope with the “we do fine, we have money!” hocus-pocus, my guess because their Asian parent told them this to insulate them from the sexual revolution that favors extremely hot men, and then white men next.
The worst part about it is that you’re in general not supposed to talk about any of this because of this conditioning that ‘love is love,’ (so long as it’s with a white person), and that it’s just mere coincidence that half-Asian women, regardless of their dads or moms are Asian, all wind up with white men.
In this case I even give WMAF daughters some brownie-points over AMWF daughters, because at very least WMAF daughters will hook up with an Asian or half-Asian guy before marrying a white guy, but my guess is that AMWF daughters won’t even bother and just beeline to eradicating the Asian genes in their blood.
Life is really, really hard for men and being hot as a man is basically the only real way to immunize yourself from all of this. And yet so many Asians are hellbent on getting with mid white people can then creating sons whose only real shot at “love” is to throw money at is. That’s probably the scariest part of it for me. I’ve had multiple women in my family openly brag to me about how they never loved their husbands, then at the same time I’ve had random women tell me they love me and buy me stuff and 100% of the time I got the impression it was cause I’m pretty as a male, and yes, this is because of my Asian looks. So it alarms me that there are so many self-hating Asians willing to toss that all away just for… whatever.
My brother and I have the exact same genes. He often refers to himself as ‘good looking’ despite being a virgin and, when I asked him, he said that no woman has ever expressed interest in him. Which is hilarious, because I’ve heard him talk about having “good genes” before, thanks to this Nazi-ass culture of half Asians gassing themselves up for having a white parent and a KKAsian parent. I’ve stopped listening to everything and just assumed everyone is lying at this point, because life is really hard so people WILL lie about their motivations, and yes, choosing ONLY a white person to have kids with IS racist.
The first time a girl expressed interest in me, I think I was 11. She wasn’t Asian, because, as you guessed it, Asian women seem to loathe me, such as the Chinese British girl I met in London who told me “you should go back to China, you’d finally get laid.” As a result of how common bullying is against me for being Asian, I genuinely don’t think I am good looking, but I’ve had white / black / Indian women ask me to take them home when their boyfriends were like 5 feet away. Funnily enough, the only guys I’ve ever spoken to who experienced this are full Asian. Not to say all full Asians are like this; my former best friend is an adopted Korean who only likes white women, never got called hot once in his life, and the only white woman he’s ever gotten cheated on him. I spent my entire life around him and my brother, was fully cognizant of everything during out childhood, and neither one of them ever, EVER, had a woman express interest in them.
My guess is that saying “Wasians are good looking” is just wishful thinking from Asians who are so self hating that they think getting with the most chopped white guy / girl available will lead to children who are “good looking.” Which isn’t how the world works, in real time, in reality.
In the REAL world, the one I’ve had to live in, racism is alive and well, especially gendered racism, and my honest to god guess is that Asian guys who actually ARE sexy, are fundamentally hated by all the incels / femcels of every race, who cope with proximity to whiteness to feel like they’ve got a leg up on ethnic minority bad boys who women are out actively chasing. It’s like those black guys who hate black women cause they know black women are all out chasing the best looking, thugged out black dudes; the Asian corollary is probably women out chasing all the communist Chinese dudes with crazy bone structure, leading to lunatic gay guys like Alicia Liu’s white supremacist father.
The world is a vicious place, with all kinds of interpersonal conflict, and if my experiences with women cheating on their men is somewhat common, this must mean a lot of men and women are traumatized by it, and using “proximity to whiteness” as a way to dig themselves out of their hole is understandable. My uncle loves blabbing about how great white people are, how terrible China is, how pretty mixed race people are, but then he treats me, a mixed race guy, like dirt, and my guess is that he can smell on me what he never got, being short, ugly and obsessed with money and America. And the funniest part is Wasian people love to act like they’re being victimized by full Asians who exclude them when I was accepted into Asian groups since I was a teenager and nobody ever questioned the fact that I was Asian, and now I realize it might just be because I randomly inherited bone structure that was pretty enough to be accepted by Asians and hated by everyone else, including self hating Asians.
At the end of the day, we only get one shot at life, and some guys are just born winners and some guys losers. That causes a huge amount of trauma even if at the subconscious level. What the hell are some men supposed to do that women are incapable of loving them let alone spending time with them unless they throw astronomical amounts of money at her?
The only reason I keep this blog is because this amount of entitlement and self-hatred is honestly so nihilistic and crazy and white supremacist that in the long run, it will do so much irreparable damage to all the progress we’ve made as a species, but no one seems to care because everyone is just in it for themselves.
10 years ago on /r/hapas it was theorized that a lot of biracial Asian guys were gay, and I sort of just ignored them because I believed that it was probably genetic because I did believe that a lot of gay men were chasing Asian women. Foolishly, I believed that gay guys would use Asian women because the Asian woman wouldn’t mind an asexual guy who wouldn’t touch her, because she had bad experiences with Asian men’s sexuality.
Thinking back to my experiences with Asian American women, I now can understand that; because I was chased hard by non-Asian women while deep down wanting an Asian woman, and the Asian women I was interested in were almost universally hostile to me in a very emasculating way, to the point that I do believe that Asian women have a problem with Asian male sexuality. I used to have these extremely fine women ask me out and take me to bars and dinner and buy me drinks and the whole time I was thinking that I wished she was Asian. My guess now, 20 years later, is that this may have been my subconscious urging me to make the right genetic decision. Funnily enough, I actually only found some black girls on par with Asian girls lookswise.
I sort of balked at this subject of gay Wasians but was interested in it because my father was obsessed with gay men to an insane degree which I found weird because I viewed gay guys as a non-threat.
After moving to China however I noticed that gays weren’t really prevalent until recently; most couples I see are lesbian couples, and only in the last 3 or 4 years have I been seeing more gay guys, and there seems to be a really strong taint of misogyny in Chinese gays. Last night in a very bougie Western market I saw this Chinese guy and a white guy walk in, and a Chinese woman working there greeted him, and he yelled at her not to talk to him. My immediate thought was, this guy absolutely hates Chinese women, and probably because they view Chinese women as golddiggers.
So my guess is, that gay white men who go for Asian women, are just incels who have given up on the idea of a genuine, non-transactional relationship with a white woman, and Asian women are looking for a non-sexual white guy with money who is incapable of cheating. A true match made in hell. A lot of these white guys get with Asian women as a last ditch on a woman, but wind up with her not finding him attractive, so he just either becomes violent or goes all the way into men.
It’s interesting because looking back over 11 years at the old posts on /r/hapas, there were posts like this that I missed completely. I thought they were funny and ignored them just reading them in passing but this is actually crazy to realize. I do realize how lucky I was to have had women chase me even when I was broke, and I never got the impression it was about anything other than my appearance. So my running theory now is that many Wasian men are gay because they inherit physical unattractiveness from their white fathers and realize fairly early that their shot at being “attractive” is either pay heavily for it, or, never have a woman truly desire them.
I mean, this really scares me to my core. The first time I learned I was cute to girls was like 10, but now I think it starts for some guys even younger. Here’s a video of a Blasian girl with an Asian dad (she identifies as Asian, btw, which is hilarious compared to Wasians) who had a crush on an Asian guy at 5 years old and went on to marry him after chasing him at 17. And she’s pretty clear that it was about looks. The fact that I can relate to that is scary, because it now dawns on me that maybe this played a part in my mom’s hatred of me – representing Asian male sexuality and attractiveness.
I mean, think about it this way; we’re 60 years deep into the sexual revolution and female choice; at this point the whole idea of “not needing a man for money” is embedded in society and basically in the western world, your only real shot as a man at finding a woman who actually loves you, let alone tolerates you, is to be physically hot, which is decided at like 5 years old (even according to this Blasian woman). What the hell are the chopped sons of white losers and Asian asexual women supposed to do?
To think that there are a lot of guys out there that are genuinely invisible to women really terrifies me and deep down that’s why I’m so obsessed with this subject.
Also, I mean this with the utmost intention and sincerity: I am not promoting hatred against LGBT or gay people. I’m just interested in this subject, but in a different way than my father was, who HATED gay guys; but I may even think now that my dad was obsessed with this subject because he understood it as a “way out,” as well.
I’m 40 next month, and if I had to sum up everything I’ve learned in my life, it’s that life is not fair and you’ll never win by complaining about evil and wrong in this world (such as Wasians having Wasian only meetups), because most people just take what they’re given, and they run with it.
Look at this objectively; I’ve seen entire lives come and go. I’ve seen certain friends of mine go through life not having a single woman ever express interest in them, while I’ve had women call me hot consistently my entire life.
For a guy like the guy in the video – what is he supposed to do? He has a white dad and a self hating Asian mom who got together because no woman wanted his father and his mother hated the way she looked; now he’s stuck like this, forever. What the hell is he supposed to do? He’s going to cling to being half white as long and as hard as he can because it’s his only real shot of feeling good about himself when he has parents that wouldn’t be together were it not for their races.
To these lunatics, it’s perfectly fine to brag about being half white, and you can see on their little threads how they talk about shit like “it’s okay for other ethnic minorities to have meetups, but Wasians can’t?” It’s just thinly veiled alt right white supremacist rhetoric in a half Asian package, which makes sense because so many white racists marry Asians.
It’s funny because in China, it’s looked down on to mix with whites, not because of racism, but more so because of lookism. The kid will have a harder time in life if he’s ugly, especially the boys. My self hating uncle who worships education and the west said that in passing to someone else at dinner, because he knew he was ugly. So all these ugly Asians had kids with ugly white people and now they have little ugly meetups bragging about their insecurities, while IRL all, and I mean ALL the half Asian women I’ve known have been with white guys and every single half-Asian I’ve met barring 1 or 2, came off as extremely try hard, insecure incels.
Here’s another image I found relevant to this post. Look at how that girl can’t even bring herself to look at the dude. The whole Wasian thing is his coping mechanism. When I was his age I had 4 different black girls and 1 white girl ask me to prom, and I rejected all of them cause I wanted a Chinese girl in my class. I never once got the impression that it was about anything other than looks. Not ONCE in my entire life did I ever get the impression that women liked me because I was mixed, if anything it was because I was Asian.
Lastly, here’s one of my favorite takedowns of Wasian arrogance and narcissism, from none other than black women on LipStickAlley.
We all know there’s a subset of Asians who make it their life’s goal to “assimilate” with white people, producing mixed race kids. They swear up and down that mixed race kids are successful / hot, but in the real world, most of us are considered Asian, and on top of that, the white parent usually isn’t that special lookswise, so we wind up with genes that would otherwise not have reproduced, reproducing with the help of an Asian woman whose only goal was to assimilate at all costs.
Before anyone says “this guy is good looking,” or “I know good looking Wasians,” or whatever, that’s not how it works. I’m not even talking about just pure physical attraction now, let me talk about love.
In the real world, yes, the real world, ACTUAL good looking guys have it easier. I know this because I had girls telling me I was fine consistently between like 10 till now. And the only reason I harp on this point is because my mom tried to kill me, I’m guessing because being the crazy feminist she was, I represented Asian male sexuality or something, even as a kid. And Asian American women I’ve met, have gone out of their way, after taking one look at my Asian bone structure, and gone out of their way to harass and insult me.
I currently live in Asia; as I said, I probably wound up back here due to disillusionment with the western lie, which probably was weighted by having a bunch of women try to cheat on their boyfriends with me. I even had a half-Korean woman try to cheat on her rich white boyfriend with me, against her mother’s wishes.
I’m gonna say something really, truly terrible to hear, and ironically the only people who will agree with me, are women, though they won’t admit it. In my time in Asia, I’ve personally SEEN women who are deeply in love with their Chinese men, even if these guys are broke or completely losers, and it’s because these guys are pretty. As I said, even when I was broke and suffering extreme mental strain from racial bullying, I had random American women telling me they were in love with me and not even once did I ever get the impression it was because of anything other than my bone structure. A few weeks ago I had some random Chinese lady come up to me and start talking to my face about how pretty I was; my woman actually joked that her husband had probably passed and she was just depressed. I have a family uncle whose wife was a huge business-chain owner and he was a loser and she basically chased him and offered him a bunch of money to marry her based on him being “so handsome.” Hilariously, my woman’s grandmother often mistakes us for one another because we look similar. I also have a family friend who is in tears every time she comes around talking about her husband who passed away 20 years ago. Compare this to three Asian women in my family admitting to me in separate occasions they never loved their white husbands.
As I said, being attractive isn’t like some subjective thing. In Chinese culture all people do is talk about looks when they’re not talking about family or money. When some woman marries a western incel, the son will be incel, because that’s how it works. You can’t weasle your way out of being chopped, because in the real world I never had to lift a finger being attractive to the opposite gender simply because I was born with cheekbones that my mother thought reminded her of her cheating Asian dad or something. If you’re born chopped, that’s it. It’s a wrap as a man, and the chances of a woman genuinely wanting you for anything other than money is 0%. Not 1%. 0%. And she’s gonna be perpetually miserable and angry because she’s got to be around a guy whose face she can’t stand.
But now we have a bunch of half Asian incels who AREN’T hot, because if they WERE hot, they would know they were by the time they were like 11. My brother has never had a woman once tell him she thought he was fine, for example. Edit: that’s wrong, he’s had a black woman say he’s fine but he’s a racist so let’s just write that one off.
So we have LITERAL half-Asian incels born from white losers / self-hating Asian moms, or even self hating Asian dads and whatever white woman they managed to throw money at. What does that lead to, objectively?
A post-color world where we all koombaya and hold hands and say race is over?
No, because we have literal Wasian meetups that exclude anyone who isn’t half white, on both coasts. Entire movements dedicated to the children of self hating Asian people who made it their life goal to assimilate to Asianness.
And know half Asians well, 100% of every half Asian woman I’ve ever met in my life, regardless if the dad or mom was Asian, wound up with a white dude. And a huge chunk of the half Asian men I’ve met were some combination of racist, gay, incel, weird, autistic, or plain unbearable to deal with due to their inherited self hatred. And self hatred merely comes from a place of them realizing deep down that women won’t ever love them because of their faces.
So what’s the answer to all this?
I really don’t know. That’s probably why they’re pushing the power bottom Wasian guy from Heated Rivalry. Even Obama said in his letters that he fantasized about banging dudes because it made life easier than the insanity we all face. Maybe that’s the solution, which is why they’re pushing it so hard. How else are we supposed to fix half Asian guys who are so chopped they go a lifetime without a single woman ever expressing attraction? I mean the buck stopped at their dads.
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