WMAF couples don’t want Asian sons, don’t really want mixed children at all, and just want white children, because whiteness = default and the easiest way of life, and barring that, they could not find a white woman to help them achieve this.
Don’t get it twisted, this is exactly what they wanted. My mother TOLD ME that she hoped for daughters, not sons, because daughters are easier to marry off into white supremacy.
An Asian appearing son is a lot of trouble, because, why not? We’re not white. There’s so much that goes into having a non-white son when it comes to navigating the same society you hoped to create – one where whiteness is the default and everything else is punished – so why would you want a mixed Asian son, not a white one?
Not a single white guy alive with a mixed race Asian son would willingly trade places with his son, or any Asian appearing guy.
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