How screwed as half Asian men? (Part 3)

(This is just a repost of some of my comments from Reddit).

I’ve seen this in person, had some Asian woman with her chopped white guy across the street just stare at me.

They get disappointed cause most of us look too Asian; when self hating Asians envision a half Asian guy they want a guy who looks like a Spanish guy with slightly narrowed eyes, rather than a guy with high cheekbones, black hair, and oily skin.

It’s such a nightmare especially since there’s so many of us now, and self hating Asians basically actively work to self segregate from anyone who is even vaguely Asian looking. On top of a 50 year legacy of Asian Americans talking shit about Asians / Asian men, we now have an entire demographic of mixed race people collectively born to self hating Asians.

At least if you’re cute as an Asian guy you can find a nice Asian / black / whatever woman but these Asian women are marrying the white guys that nobody wants, ironically the only thing that saved my ass from being ugly was my mom’s genes, my dad was turbo chopped, but my mom was one of those weird anti-sex feminists who hated all Asian men.

We’re the most overrated mixed race period, at least with half black guys a lot of white women are chasing black guys who look good so you get guys who look like Victor Wembayama. Compared to how horrible looking Zach Edey is.

It’s amazing that people still don’t understand this, when Asian women chase the white guys that no women want, the sons usually wind up turbo chopped, but also I’ve seen Asian men throw money at white women as well, even Arthur Liu didn’t want sons cause he knew he was chopped and the sons would have a worse life.

Unfortunately to live a life even vaguely bordering on happy, not being used and abused by women, you have to be cute but that ship as sailed for many hapa boys. At least cute Asian guys can easily find a woman who loves them.

Asian moms hope for half Asian daughters, not sons

You know for a long time I couldn’t figure out why my mom tried to kill me, but about 3 years ago my brother told me that my mom hoped for daughters, but I kept making excuses for her behavior, thinking I don’t look that Asian, that she wanted to get back at my dad, but this video really confirms it to me, that I genuinely think it was because I was an Asian male to her.

I realize that now because I live in China and just walk around and people don’t even think I’m foreign.

It’s pretty scary that people like this exist especially since there’s a 50/50% chance that hapas are born male. But then again, I feel like the mothers work overtime to either emasculate or destroy the sons or turn us into STEM / finance bros.

I wish I was joking. At this point my heart is cold and withered enough to just accept facts.

Also, yeah, the schizoid dad. My dad had heavy Asperger’s, like so many rejected white men who go for Asian women. This is why there’s so few successful half Asian men despite our numbers, because not only are so many of us born carrying the genes of white men who couldn’t get their own women, but the moms hate the fact that we look too Asian and were born male.

Oh God

I wasn’t even looking for this but I follow basketball on Youtube and the algorithm recommended me this video, and it’s just an ordinary video with some white wahmen shooting basketball, so I thought oh, that’s probably why it’s popular.

Then Mr. Wasian there pops up and gets rejected, which was the real reason it went viral.

Here’s a real horror of this, because I’m a half Asian and I’ve been asked out by “hotter” white women and I never said yes because for most of my life I thought Asian and black girls were prettier. At this point in my life I know that if you’re being rejected like the ‘Wasian’ there, you’re probably way past the point of ever being chosen by a woman like I was.

/r/hapas used to suggest that white women were boycotting half Asian sons of WMAF on principle (because of the anti-feminist dad), but now I genuinely think it’s because the white dad’s poor looks were inherited by the son.

Since after all, anti-feminist white passport bros are doing it because their heckin’ white wahmen didn’t want them for their looks, so there’s an entire demographic of chopped half Asian guys with white dads and self-hating Asian moms now, continuing the cycle of their dads.

Actually kind of sad

This is a gay half Asian guy. I was looking through his TikTok and found he made a post about how he had trauma from finding out his name was on a bathroom stall list of ‘ugly boys.’

I’m not implying causation, but there must have been some trauma involved there.

I think a lot of half-Asian guys are screwed because we have unattractive passport bro dads escaping “feminism,” which is just that in the western world, our dads were rejected.

So you have a lot of half Asian guys born from racist, right wing, anti-feminist white dads who were just basically not cute enough for a woman to truly love them.

If you’re unattractive as a man in the west your options are basically be very rich to get a woman to tolerate you, become a passport bro, or play for the other team.

The Asian moms are just in it for the money, the visa, or they’re some weird feminist who hates all men of her race, but either way so many half Asian guys just carry their dads looks. Or they’re just flat out self-hating in general. The bad looks are just a cherry on top of the whole white supremacist parents thing, plus racist bullying.

Again, this guy knew he was unattractive at 13, and I knew I was attractive at 11. After moving to China I later learned it was normal for normal Chinese girls to crush on normal Chinese guys at that age. My self hating family treated me like trash for most of my life and now I guess they realized I represented the same attractive, proud Asians that bullied them when THEY were in middle school.

Wasians are born of self hatred

Self hating Asians are the most obsessed with having mixed babies, like Arthur Liu.

And the only reason these Asians are self hating is because they’re physically ugly or were treated poorly by other Asians (probably due to their looks), but in the real world, people (especially Asians) make value judgements based on objective facial attractiveness. Case in point, this guy has no facial harmony, no cheekbones, nothing. I don’t think people realize how vicious life is, especially towards chopped men I live in China and see 10,000 happy couples a day where the woman is clearly happy with the man’s face, since in China people can’t shut up about good looking men and women.

As a result, most mixed race Asians are unattractive, and no, it’s not subjective, because I was told I was hot by girls when I was like 11, by everyone except – surprise, surprise, Asian women. And guess what? My crazy feminist Asian mom hated that about me. I guess she preferred I was born a girl, or chopped and gay, because of her deep seated issues with the behavior of hot Asian guys.

Which is really bad, because in 2026 the only people (guys especially) who women like are all hot guys (look at how Kpop guys are treated versus other men), while every other guy has a long and hard life throwing money at women who don’t love them; my mom and her sisters all admitted they never loved their white husbands.

Arthur Liu (Alysia Liu’s dad) wanted female babies, and had 6 with an IVF white female donor, probably because he knew his sons would inherit his looks and have a hard time. Even my ultra -feminist mom told me she wanted daughters, not sons, but parented my brother and I differently, coddling him, while hating me, because I guess she noticed white / black girls liked my Asian bone structure (they’ve literally told me this to my face, the Kpop craze confirmed it).

If you’re not “hot” as a man in life, women can never really truly love you, so a lot of half-Asian guys wind up racist, right-wing, into extreme behaviors, or gay, or all of the above.

It is what it is, life is hard like that,

Goodluck

Damn, a lot of Wasian guys are gay

Just so people know, I don’t hate or care much about LGBT people, I think they should be protected, granted every right and celebrated as much as possible, but I only push this because I have a vendetta against white worshipping Asians who think that their children will naturally become super human alpha males who will rule the world, when in fact, the world doesn’t work like that. You know how the world really operates? On very unfair superficial principles.

The other day at the mall in China, within 5 minutes I saw this extremely tired looking unattractive bearded white guy with a Chinese woman who clearly didn’t care about him, and then this half Asian femboy walking around all alone.

Here’s the HARSH reality of life and about the half-Asian thing.

I’m half Asian but pass as full, got bullied for it my whole life even by self hating Asian women. Noticed a lot of half Asian guys are gay, right wing, weird, or all of the above. Makes sense. Life is very hard, a lot of Asian women marry unattractive weird white men for the money, my mom and aunts all admitted they never loved their white husbands, because they’re unattractive (even to non-Asian women), obviously, but provide utility, and are easy to control, unlike Asian men.

Half Asian sons come out carrying their dads genes, get ignored by women their whole lives, or used by women, and their moms just abuse their dads and formed a relationship entirely on utility, so the sons have a completely warped perspective on heterosexual love, probably not even believing a woman can love a man, not that it would matter, because women aren’t even attracted to them anyways especially in the western world where women (the same women that rejected our dads) just hate every guy who isn’t hot.

As an Asian looking guy, I’ve had non-Asian women chase me down and ask me to sleep with them, some of them have boyfriends, even had half Asian women try this with their half-Asian or white boyfriends who had high paying jobs. (My feminist mom noticed this about me early and absolutely hated me for it).

These guys were all rich, these women straight up told me they were using them for money. These guys have no idea and even if they did they couldn’t do anything cause they’re not hot enough to be able to do anything. So a lot of these guys just date men because they’re easier and less demanding than women.

That’s where all those memes come from like “she cheated so you go find out what the hype was about.” Women are picky, you either have to be hot or be really rich and even then they don’t want these guys. So half-Asian sons come out with no women wanting them and trust me, if you’re a hot guy women will just tell you your whole life from your teenaged years until you’re old.

I was like 11 when girls were calling me hot, finding my little shitty websites and leaving comments about how hot I wa, first time I got catcalled was waiting for the bus when I was like 12 or 13 by a group of girls, and these same girls were ignoring every other guy in my class I’m sure most hot Asian guys can confirm this is fact.

Sorry, life is really hard and unfair like that. Asian women basically sell out their sons’ happiness for money. It is what it is.

What could go wrong with Wasian men?

I saw this video being virally reposted among female online spaces where they all basically were wrecking his behavior, calling him disgusting and pathetic for being a grown man, and the guy is clearly hapa and I’m guessing gay.

From an ontological perspective, let’s say:

White unattractive guy goes for an Asian woman, who uses white guy because he’s white or to further her goals, or simply because he’s not Asian. Arguably, the inverse can also happen where an Asian guy throws money at some white woman who doesn’t like him that much. The woman doesn’t love the white guy because he’s physically unattractive, and the son now grows up in a home where he is exposed to a very pragmatic, loveless relationship based on utility, and on top of that, the son is deeply confused by rejection from both white and Asian spaces, and on top of that, he realizes at around 11-12 years old that he’s not physically attractive, let alone cute, to the opposite gender.

What exactly are these men supposed to do, other than embrace gay identity?

Wasians need a reality check

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNc49jpjPoI

I saw this random ad on Youtube, and I clicked it, because I was like “oh god, another Wasian ‘model’.”

Hilariously enough, the top comment was “who else clicked because of this guy’s appearance.”

My Wasian radar went off on the guy and I think I’m right, and people are comparing him to a Wasian Tyler Robinson (the guy who shot Charlie Kirk). Which if funny because people take one look at him and can see the white incel dad in him.

And the rest of the comments are just roasting how chopped he is.

Wasians think they’re models because their self hating Asian parent tells them they’re models, but in the real world people take one look at a person and can decide if they’re hot or not, and just because someone TELLS you “you should model,” doesn’t mean anything; it’s the same as telling someone they “should do standup comedy.” I’ve never, ever, had an Asian or other person tell me I should model, despite being called hot since I was 12, so this whole ‘Wasians are attractive’ thing is just wishful thinking from ugly Asians who need to sell their Wasian fantasy to the world to justify their own self hatred. Maybe that’s why I’ve always been considered ‘Asian’, not mixed, and had to deal with actual realistic racism from both whites and self-hating Asians my whole life, probably cause I look more like my mom, and my brother, who looks like my dad, is a self-hating MAGA virgin.

Wasians continue to be the most oversold, overcompensating, ridiculously overhyped demographic in history.

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“I don’t date Asian guys, they remind me of my brother”

This half Asian woman (I don’t know if her dad is Asian or mom is Asian, for some reason she gives me Asian dad vibes) openly brags about her racism, I know we’ve all seen this before so let me just cut to the gist of it.

She goes on her whole screed of “love is love, mixing is great, it’s not about race” until someone, including myself said, “you LITERALLY said it’s about race as long as it’s not Asian men.”

The rest of the comments are stuff like “imagine if white women said that about white men.”

I made the usual comments about her being ugly and bitter but she didn’t seem to get it, and of course she’s really into Trump and other kicking out immigrants and my guess is she picked it up from her Caucasian husband.

She also bragged about how people think her sons are “tall and handsome” till I told her I’d be 100 bucks at least one of them is gay and she flipped her gasket and started calling me a psycho, so my guess is I was probably right since women get insanely angry when you just say the truth. My honest guess is she’s some insane golddigging hapa woman with some rich husband who just says insanely racist shit on Twitter for her sons and brothers to read and the mental damage of having to witness that is more than enough to turn half-Asian sons off of the idea of women being capable of anything remotely loving, let alone nice.

Let me cut to the chase here: she’s a racist, plain and simple, and the fact that only Asian men are subjected to this is insane, especially since, I, a half-Asian guy, have heard from Asian (and non-Asian) women that they don’t like Asian men.

The funny thing is that she’s already mixed, and if you scroll through her comments she admits that her brother is still single, which is hilarious, because by her logic her brother is an unmarriageable incel because he’s (half) Asian. Of course, being totally devoid of empathy for her own brother I highly doubt she gives a single shit about her sons, who are probably bullied and deeply insecure about being Asian.

Think about it this way, how genuinely insane this and what damage it does to half Asian guys with moms like this. This is why so many half-Asian guys are complete messes, it’s not even racial confusion at this point, it’s their mother’s complete insane nihilism where she feels perfectly fine pushing stuff like this online.

Why white guys kill their Asian wives so much

I’ve had multiple Asian women in my family admit to me at several different points that they never loved their white husbands, maybe because they saw how I was struggling with my ethnicity, but I think also women tend to open up to me more because I inherited pretty Asian male features so I’m fully aware of women’s true nature. The thing is, women reading this KNOW I’m telling the truth. Even my mom would literally bully my dad WHILE HE WAS EATING to the point he covered his face with his hand during dinner.

But most white guys can’t deal with it and they marry some asexual, man-hating Asian golddigger that is only with them for the money, but Asian women can just have zero filter so it will slip out that she says something to his face like “I never loved you,” or “the kids aren’t yours,” or something like that.

That’s why there are SO MANY cases of Asian women getting murdered by their white man, and the kids sometimes get smoked too, maybe cause of infidelity. Asian women are just so notoriously pragmatic about life that marrying some ugly incel racist white guy is just seen as the “thing to do,” love be damned.

That’s why so many half Asian guys are gay. Being told from day one that “race doesn’t matter” but your mom literally married a white guy ONLY for the money or ONLY because he’s white, must be so confusing. Imagine having it shoved in your face since day one that women don’t actually love, let alone like men; it’s probably so cataclysmic for hapa males, and many swear off the idea of legitimate, heterosexual love completely.

On top of that, life is extremely hard. In 2026 to get a woman you basically have to be extremely rich or extremely pretty, which is why so many rich white guys want Asian women; because even the money can’t save them from women’s facial pickiness. So now the sons are born with their white dad’s narrow ugly faces just because their Asian moms picked an ugly dude for the money. And the sons are, for lack of a better word, completely fucked and wind up just throwing money at white women and attending little stupid Wasian parties.