I remember being shocked once finding out a black girl I had a crush on, slept with my racist white “former friend.”
I’ve been trying to fight against racist white guys getting with women of color for decades – even my own parents, to no avail. Instead they continue to produce messed up, confused biracial children – especially if we’re sons, since half-Asian and half-non-white men suffer from the same biases of poverty and social exclusion and employment discrimination that monoracial MOC do.
The reason why women don’t care is because of these stats:
Around 94% of all international marriage happens between a woman from a lower GDP country, and a man from a higher GDP country.
Basically, it’s easier to say a lie like “true love,” “my man isn’t racist,” and other empty bullshit, to cover up the fact that women basically form relationships for money.
When you say it like that, basically ANYTHING sounds better.
Insecure half-Asians love touting themselves as “superior Wasians,” to distinguish themselves from full Asians with the big “W” in front of their labels, because they’re insecure about looking Asian and not being full white – when their mothers were deliberately trying to marry “up” into whiteness. I hate the term “Wasian.” It sounds like something a 25+ year old adult virgin male would say to make himself sound cool to “le girls.” The girls he can’t get.
Being half-Asian isn’t an advantage, because according to our parents – integration into the white world was the true end game – and yet half-Asians are still half inferior compared to the white metric that OUR OWN PARENTS defined.
We get bullied for being half Asian, even by self-hating Asians, and then told that being half-white / half-Asian is a bonus – even though we’re being told that being fully-white is the best?
Not only that – in the event one of us wants to throw off this whole thing and go hang out with Asians – we’re seen as outsiders by the actual cool, self-loving Asians with their own things going on.
We lose no matter what. Oh, what about the fabled “half-Asian looks?” So what? Our mothers married ugly white men for the money. What good are looks? A good looking “Wasian” is about as useful as a good looking black man in white supremacist society. No wonder so many half-Asian guys take the easy way out and go gay. No wonder there are so few successful Asian looking half-Asians in this world. No wonder there are so many far-right Neo-Nazi adjacent half-Asians. Just look at our parents.
Here’s a video I found randomly. This guy (yes, I know he’s not white), hits his Korean girlfriend live on stream after she openly announces that “she’s never in the mood.”
For one, a lot of sexually frustrated men go to Asian countries SPECIFICALLY to get a “chaste” Asian girlfriend to make them feel big after being emasculated by women in their own countries (ergo, their own women sleep with guys that aren’t them).
But it turns out Asian women are asexual – and a lot of this is the reason why many Asian women get cheated on by their Asian partners – and so they go for foreign men instead. The only problem is that the Caucasian goes into it expecting a submissive sex doll and gets the complete opposite – a completely asexual woman. A little known fact is that WMAF couples don’t have sex (why would they? women only want to have sex with men who are attractive), and have the lowest fertility rates out of any pairing. Either that, or she cheats on him with a guy she IS attracted to.
That’s why there’s so much violence in non-Asian guy + Asian woman couples. Combined with the viciousness of her words plus the lack of intimacy, it drives them insane. I say this as a guy who has been with every race of women. I’ve been with women who were MAD that I wasn’t putting out enough.
This is the dirty little secret of self-hating Asian women and their abusive, insane, race Caucasian “partners.” My father was forced to sleep on the floor for 20 years while my mother was throwing things at him. How crazy that my life was basically ruined due to the dynamic of racist Caucasian father + asexual Asian mother.
Relative to our numbers, there are virtually NO Asian looking half-Asians of any measure of success in America. Compare that to half-black, half-white people.
So, whenever someone states (the usual garbage argument): w-w-w-what about Keanu Reeves? Keanu’s father was a drug addicted WMAF half Asian who passed as full Asian, and married a model – thus Keanu is 1/4 Asian, but technically AMWF (Asian male / white female)
Then of course they name some other messed up half-Asian female celebrities from 20 years ago (ahem, ahem, a certain one who wound up in a sex cult). Or name some totally white passing 1/4 Asian person and have the BALLS to say: “see! Half Asians can be successful, if they’re only 1/4 Asian and look 100% white!”
There will NEVER be a half-Asian, Asian presenting president of the US. Obama even himself admitted that the reason he was proud to be black was because his mother said that “black guys were cool.” When an Asian woman marries a white man – she is saying “white men are cool.”
Big problem there; half-Asian men aren’t white. So basically you’re slammed in the face by this every day of your life from the day you’re born – this idea that Asian guys are not welcome in America… not even by our own parents. Add to it the usual autistic creepy weirdo + Asian mom combo, and there’s no real reason for there to be successful half-Asians in the western world.
“B-b-b-bbut what can I do to raise my half-Asian son well?”
I don’t know. You decided being Asian wasn’t worth it. You yourself said it was worthless on a man. Figure it out.
I noticed, especially online, a high number of mixed race half-white people who are really into LGBT or asexual culture (strange that they’re linked together).
I find this weird coming off of a history of women being overtly aggressive towards me sexually and again, it was clear that it was because I’m Asian. As a result I’ve been pretty lax and swaggy my whole life.
So it’s strange to see people who cling dearly to the idea of being “white adjacent” or, basically, “not cool.” It’s aiming for asexuality, rigidness, sterilization.
I find it so bizarre that I’ve had women tell me, to my face, they want to f*** me, and then have to sit down with Asian guys, or mixed race people, who act like sex with a woman, or being masculine, or having swag and drip, is strange. Now it makes sense, though. Racists, whether they’re overt, or “whitewashed,” are people who hate POC for having sex. After all, POC reproduce at way higher rates, anyways.
I suspect the far right, right-wingers, white-adjacents and white worshippers in general this thing where they suffer from literal aversion to sexuality (probably due to their looks, and the asexuality thing is just a coping mechanism), and what attracts them to radical concepts of whiteness or white adjacency is merely inceldom; or the pathological hatred of people they view as “wild and unhinged” sexually. It’s all one big ball of trauma.
Reminder: When a white man gets with a woman of color, they have the lowest fertility rates out of any pairing.
Edit: I just had a massive realization. A friend of mine pointed out that Asians in the west have the highest rates of LGBT; I wonder if this has anything to do with their pathological obsession with white people. Cause, for men, especially, if you’re “only into white women,” but a naked black or Asian girl was in front of you, and you couldn’t get turned on, then you’re probably not straight, and you’re a racist, which isn’t really surprising since the LGBT community is insanely racist.
There’s been a trend of white men with Asian wives naming their sons super “white sounding’ names – in an attempt to turn their sons into “warriors for Europa” who will “save Europe from big black cock,” or “marauding hordes of Islam” or whatever.
Maximillian, Maximus, Elliot, Gunther, Reginald, Archfield, Brenton, Bartholomew, whatever insane thing he decided to name his kid in his quest to achieve the little narcissistic white empire he had in his head – all without the help of the white woman who didn’t want to touch his undersized willy.
It’s comical to see half-Asians or other mixed-race people go on and on about their “Nordic” or “Northern European” or “Scotch-Irish” heritage while not caring at all about their Asian or POC side. That’s because they want to LARP as a white person to fulfill their parents’ dreams of carrying on European tradition against the hordes of black or Arab men with large swinging swords (yes, I use this terminology because it’s funny and it’s based in the literal reality of the thing).
Sometimes I wonder if I turned out alright cause my dad had the intelligence and wherewithal to give me an Asian name so I wouldn’t become a cringe, closeted-homosexual white supremacist like most half-Asian LARPers. Albeit the bullying was pretty bad but at least I don’t walk around in button up shirts claiming that I’m a proud “Half-Merovingian, half Northeast Aryan” nutcase who has gotten zero vagina since the 80’s (aka the year I was born).
When our Asian parents’ entire goal in life is to escape Asianness and disconnect from it, sell their bodies and souls for money, in favor of ‘Americanizing’ and ‘whitening themselves up’ and totally, inexorably escaping their own culture in favor of whatever Americanization is?
Add to the fact that they marry a white partner who has a high chance of having zero empathy and being racist – what on earth is the half-Asian person supposed to do when someone bullies him or her? Because believe me – Asians and half-Asians get bullied worse than any other group on the planet.
My brother told me the other day he wants to look like an “all American boy.” Despite looking fully Asian and being a 40+ year old virgin Trump worshipper. Who taught him that? Who taught him that looking like an all-American right wing white boy was the end goal of life, despite the fact that there’s not a woman alive who is turned on by that aesthetic?
If this is the end goal – to just turn Asians white – then why not just go in-vitro?
I think this is the reason why so many WMAF couples (in the event they even have sex) – hope for daughters, not sons. Daughters are way easier to integrate into whiteness and marry off to white men with money and privilege. Half-Asian sons are hit or miss; our entire existence banks off of “being hot,” but when your dad is an ugly white man rejected by white women, this oftentimes doesn’t work, since the son isn’t hot. Add to it the mental strain of being half-Asian with white supremacist parents, most half-Asian men wind up total messes, or gay – probably a result of being exposed to such in-their-face emasculation, golddigging, and nihilistic mate-selection. My mother repeatedly told me she hated my father and never loved him, even once; it’s a miracle I turned out straight and still into women after that.
Just randomly seeing right wing shit on my Twitter feed, I come across occasionally some “famous” white far-right guy whining about how the left destroyed his life or something, and boom – low and behold – he mentions his Asian wife.
I wonder which came first; the descent into far right beliefs, or the Asian wife?
Because a lot of far-right guys live in perpetual trauma of white women rejecting them for black men, so they go for “asexual, traditional” Asian women to fill that gap.
However after they get married, the lack of sex, belittling and the attitude of the Asian wife may make these guys go off the deep end. In the words of Socrates: “a bad marriage makes a man into a philosopher.”
Or maybe they’re the same issue. Either way, a lot of these far-right, closet-case, hateful white men basically default to Asian women in their attempt to “feel big” against the tides of change. Hence the “I’m not racist – my wife is Asian.”
I was watching some rap show on Netflix and noticed this really uncomfortable looking half-Asian guy in the background who clearly was there only by invitation by the contestant as part of his family entourage, and he was wearing this trucker hat, had a big beard and one of those pro-American / gun shirts or whatever.
And I was like… another one?
Why are half-Asian men SO into proving that they’re real Americans, real tough-guys who take back America from all those libs, POC, feminists, etc?
Simple, well, like in my case, their fathers are white nationalist adjacent men who went for an Asian woman as a way to fight back against change, to feel big and unapologetically white, and have a woman that worshipped them and rewarded them for whiteness. This is how these hapa men are raised. Their mothers are marrying a white man because it’s simply out of the question to marry an Asian man. That’s how the game is rigged, after all. So, now, you’ve got a half-Asian man who was raised by two people who ostensibly SHOULD have been a right-leaning white couple, except the woman is Asian. Asian looking hapa son is so cut off from his mother’s culture, so brainwashed into thinking white society and white men are the pinnacle of all humanity – OF COURSE these hapas are going to act, talk, dress like good ol’ American boys. He’ll do ANYTHING to prove he’s a white American man – just with Asian facial features. And since he has Asian facial features, in order to escape the inevitably and persistent jokes and alienation, he goes WAY out of his way to signal to the world, through his actions and appearance – that he’s NOT a foreigner, NOT a POC, but a good old American white man – but just with an Asian mother.
Asian women hate that Asian men are “players” and are the only ones to get into sexless / transactional relationships with rich white guys, often getting burned by some player Asian guy who dumps her when she won’t put out. I randomly saw this AF in a WMAF on Youtube married to some short bald white guy and she had to have an IVF pregnancy because apparently they didn’t even have sex. Even “Korean Englishman” (a Youtuber neo-colonialist sexpat) can’t have kids cause he and his wife don’t have sex. I know an AF who chased after this player AM for years buying him gifts and he dumped her cause she wouldn’t put out that much, so she married this short Ed Sheeran looking dude.
That’s why fertility rates drop when women of any race marries a white man. Which is funny cause these women claim hapas / half-Asians are all so attractive yet they are so repulsed by their own WM partners that they can’t even sleep with them.
My advice to Asian guys is to fight back by embracing the stereotypes of bum ass lazy cheap sex-addict Asians and keep doing what we’re doing. I saw this AF whining about how AM are cheap and whining about prices of groceries and calling everything bougie, and that’s literally me, but it’s fine cause I’ve never worked and still been with a crazy amount of women, so why would I change? I’m literally taking my girl to Dollar Tree later and she doesn’t even care.
White Dad Asian Mom - "I'm Not Racist, My Wife is Asian!" 