Imagine this scenario, as a half-Asian man (plus: a half-Asian poem)

My Asian wife,

She is the one

She makes me feel

I’m 6 foot 1

She said no Asians

We had our fun

But just one problem

Our Asian son.

When you leave the house, you only see white guys and Asian women, and never the inverse.

When you turn on TV, you only see white guys and Asian women, and never the inverse, and men who look like you do not exist.

You see movies, TV shows, written by white man / Asian woman couples, from the perspective that Asian men don’t exist, and half-Asian sons are generally presented as white passing.

Your entire existence is built on the fetishistic, idealized image that white man / Asian women couples have in their head about how YOUR existence should be defined – happy, good looking, white presenting, a perfect mix of white man + Asian woman. The new white picket fence, the new normal, where Asian men simply do not exist and Asianness is represented exclusively by Asian women, who are universally married to white men.

However, again, when you leave the house, white guys and Asian women roll their eyes at you because you look like an Asian guy. There are still offhanded jokes, demeaning comments, and you’ll hear “I don’t really like Asian guys” pretty commonly.

The few Asians who aren’t white washed won’t really accept you, and the other Asians who are whitewashed, assuming you WANT to be Asian, will look down on you, a half-Asian, for being “too Asian.”

Think about that fate, then multiply it by 1 million and you have the current Wasian situation.

Wasian incel asks weird questions to Japanese women on subway

This weird half-Asian (presumably with a white dad / Asian mom, because, of course), asks weird cringe questions to Asian women on a subway in Japan.

Several things of note:

  1. He refers to his face as “Canadian” despite looking clearly mixed
  2. Canadian “faces” are “white” to him, not Native or the other dozens of ethnicities in Canada (classic racism inherited from his heckin’ white daddy / mommy and his heckin’ white-worshipping parent)
  3. He gets shocked when a woman points out it’s a facial problem (women pick men on faces, let’s be very honest)
  4. He claims he’s “white” despite not looking white, but angry that his white-ish features aren’t attractive to her.
  5. He continues to press the question, asking a woman if she ever had sex with a foreign man, despite looking LITERALLY half-Japanese to himself, because he feels entitled to Japanese women on the basis that he’s half-white, and mad that they, god forbid, prefer Asian men.

We’re such a weird goddamned demographic, I swear to god. I thank God I was born Asian looking so I never developed such a weird colonial incel complex rooted in the fact that women don’t find my face attractive.

Chinese woman calls black woman in Beijing the N-word and says she’ll send the video to her white boyfriend

I’ve been saying this for more than 13 years at this point.

Neo-Nazis love Asian women cause it makes them feel big about being white, when no one else will. They feel intimidated by liberalism, white women, feminism, black men and white women, immigration, etc. So they go for Asian women who make them feel super powerful about being unapologetically white, since Asian women “like” white men.

The only problem is that we, the children never look white, and these same white supremacist couples that involve an Asian woman, are actually openly racist against Asian men and Asian-passing and even Latino-passing half-Asian men. And since half-Asians have more in common with the racism that black people face, our own parents wind up destroying us mentally.

What is “acting white?”

A black friend of mine sent me this: “ there’s only three kind of people. White people, black people and people who want to be white.” I asked him, hey, did you ever have women aggressively hit on you and ask you out? And he said, yeah.

It’s funny cause back in the day I’ve had women aggressively chase me down through friends, and the only time I’ve ever seen that is when a girl actually asked me to get my black friend’s number for her.

I think I’ve figured it out after all these years.

I never wanted to be white because I couldn’t relate to it. I couldn’t relate to the stiffness. After you see women’s true desire for a man, it’s basically impossible to go back on that, how could I?

This massive swing into fascism is this swing into a system that supports men (white and white adjacent) who don’t understand this, at all. It’s all barely veiled anger at the bad boys of all races, who don’t need to jump through hoops for it. And they associate being a lazy, bad boy with being “black.” It’s like how I noticed in China, the people on average wear urban style clothing. Compared to Asian Americans, who wear flannel and dress like dorks.

I was right when I was a kid. I KNEW it. This is all it is. White acting people like my brother / uncle are just mad no woman ever truly wanted them. And my white dad, mad that women didn’t truly want him, went for an asexual Asian woman to play big man. Because so many white men are left out in the cold due to sexual selection by white / other women so go for asexual Asian women just happy not to have sex and get the bag.