Hey, would you look at that, it’s almost like I was right.
Insecure, invisible hapa man born to a racist white dad who imported his opportunist, self hating Asian mom, and now is stuck with unattractive facial features – so what does he do?
In order to prove that he’s almost white like his dad, who hated all immigrants and people of color, except Asian women, who were happy to marry him for the visa – he starts screaming at the Prime Minister of Australia.
Of all the people in Australia who could have possibly done this – of COURSE it was a Wasian.
Why wouldn’t it be?
An entire generation of racist white men married Asian women to escape those femininst white women and now the sons are left with their dad’s shitty genes, their dad’s politic beliefs, their mother’s nihilistic racism and white supremacy, and are basically completely useless UNLESS they start screaming about something that makes them feel big.
So this isn’t my usual post where I’m like, ohm there’s a huge difference between WMAF and AMWF hapas.
I mean there probably is but recently I’ve seen it’s hit or miss, but I posted this video on Twitter to merely point out that the ugly fat troll looking guy was just flat out being racist in the name of “comedy” and lacks the wherewithal and self awareness to look at what he’s saying in the vein of basically, uh, the most famous Half Asian or all time, Elliot Rodger, who killed a bunch of Asian guys.
Some of my readers pointed out that there was a stark difference in their attractiveness and I was like, yeah, wow, you’re actually right.
Reality is that the short guy is apparently a sexpat in Thailand, and his mother is Thai, and you can basically see the ugly white passport bro dad on him, since, as we know, women do care about looks. So here is this ugly mixed race self declared ‘Wasian’ writing out the word ‘Wasian’ in racist little Asian font, making fun of a bored looking, uncomfortable, decently-attractive son of an Asian man. You can’t really make that up.
I was more concentrated on what a disgusting, lazy, low effort racist he was, but just looking at him you can tell his dad cheated evolution, he’s stuck looking like that so all he really knows is being toxic to cope.
I saw this video being virally reposted among female online spaces where they all basically were wrecking his behavior, calling him disgusting and pathetic for being a grown man, and the guy is clearly hapa and I’m guessing gay.
From an ontological perspective, let’s say:
White unattractive guy goes for an Asian woman, who uses white guy because he’s white or to further her goals, or simply because he’s not Asian. Arguably, the inverse can also happen where an Asian guy throws money at some white woman who doesn’t like him that much. The woman doesn’t love the white guy because he’s physically unattractive, and the son now grows up in a home where he is exposed to a very pragmatic, loveless relationship based on utility, and on top of that, the son is deeply confused by rejection from both white and Asian spaces, and on top of that, he realizes at around 11-12 years old that he’s not physically attractive, let alone cute, to the opposite gender.
What exactly are these men supposed to do, other than embrace gay identity?
I saw this random ad on Youtube, and I clicked it, because I was like “oh god, another Wasian ‘model’.”
Hilariously enough, the top comment was “who else clicked because of this guy’s appearance.”
My Wasian radar went off on the guy and I think I’m right, and people are comparing him to a Wasian Tyler Robinson (the guy who shot Charlie Kirk). Which if funny because people take one look at him and can see the white incel dad in him.
And the rest of the comments are just roasting how chopped he is.
Wasians think they’re models because their self hating Asian parent tells them they’re models, but in the real world people take one look at a person and can decide if they’re hot or not, and just because someone TELLS you “you should model,” doesn’t mean anything; it’s the same as telling someone they “should do standup comedy.” I’ve never, ever, had an Asian or other person tell me I should model, despite being called hot since I was 12, so this whole ‘Wasians are attractive’ thing is just wishful thinking from ugly Asians who need to sell their Wasian fantasy to the world to justify their own self hatred. Maybe that’s why I’ve always been considered ‘Asian’, not mixed, and had to deal with actual realistic racism from both whites and self-hating Asians my whole life, probably cause I look more like my mom, and my brother, who looks like my dad, is a self-hating MAGA virgin.
Wasians continue to be the most oversold, overcompensating, ridiculously overhyped demographic in history.
This half Asian woman (I don’t know if her dad is Asian or mom is Asian, for some reason she gives me Asian dad vibes) openly brags about her racism, I know we’ve all seen this before so let me just cut to the gist of it.
She goes on her whole screed of “love is love, mixing is great, it’s not about race” until someone, including myself said, “you LITERALLY said it’s about race as long as it’s not Asian men.”
The rest of the comments are stuff like “imagine if white women said that about white men.”
I made the usual comments about her being ugly and bitter but she didn’t seem to get it, and of course she’s really into Trump and other kicking out immigrants and my guess is she picked it up from her Caucasian husband.
She also bragged about how people think her sons are “tall and handsome” till I told her I’d be 100 bucks at least one of them is gay and she flipped her gasket and started calling me a psycho, so my guess is I was probably right since women get insanely angry when you just say the truth. My honest guess is she’s some insane golddigging hapa woman with some rich husband who just says insanely racist shit on Twitter for her sons and brothers to read and the mental damage of having to witness that is more than enough to turn half-Asian sons off of the idea of women being capable of anything remotely loving, let alone nice.
Let me cut to the chase here: she’s a racist, plain and simple, and the fact that only Asian men are subjected to this is insane, especially since, I, a half-Asian guy, have heard from Asian (and non-Asian) women that they don’t like Asian men.
The funny thing is that she’s already mixed, and if you scroll through her comments she admits that her brother is still single, which is hilarious, because by her logic her brother is an unmarriageable incel because he’s (half) Asian. Of course, being totally devoid of empathy for her own brother I highly doubt she gives a single shit about her sons, who are probably bullied and deeply insecure about being Asian.
Think about it this way, how genuinely insane this and what damage it does to half Asian guys with moms like this. This is why so many half-Asian guys are complete messes, it’s not even racial confusion at this point, it’s their mother’s complete insane nihilism where she feels perfectly fine pushing stuff like this online.
I’ve had multiple Asian women in my family admit to me at several different points that they never loved their white husbands, maybe because they saw how I was struggling with my ethnicity, but I think also women tend to open up to me more because I inherited pretty Asian male features so I’m fully aware of women’s true nature. The thing is, women reading this KNOW I’m telling the truth. Even my mom would literally bully my dad WHILE HE WAS EATING to the point he covered his face with his hand during dinner.
But most white guys can’t deal with it and they marry some asexual, man-hating Asian golddigger that is only with them for the money, but Asian women can just have zero filter so it will slip out that she says something to his face like “I never loved you,” or “the kids aren’t yours,” or something like that.
That’s why there are SO MANY cases of Asian women getting murdered by their white man, and the kids sometimes get smoked too, maybe cause of infidelity. Asian women are just so notoriously pragmatic about life that marrying some ugly incel racist white guy is just seen as the “thing to do,” love be damned.
That’s why so many half Asian guys are gay. Being told from day one that “race doesn’t matter” but your mom literally married a white guy ONLY for the money or ONLY because he’s white, must be so confusing. Imagine having it shoved in your face since day one that women don’t actually love, let alone like men; it’s probably so cataclysmic for hapa males, and many swear off the idea of legitimate, heterosexual love completely.
On top of that, life is extremely hard. In 2026 to get a woman you basically have to be extremely rich or extremely pretty, which is why so many rich white guys want Asian women; because even the money can’t save them from women’s facial pickiness. So now the sons are born with their white dad’s narrow ugly faces just because their Asian moms picked an ugly dude for the money. And the sons are, for lack of a better word, completely fucked and wind up just throwing money at white women and attending little stupid Wasian parties.
NVIDIA CEO Jensen Huang’s half-Asian daughter is with a white guy while his son is still single. This is the same guy who “inspires” all the chopped Asian men in the west to become billionaires and throw money at white women.
I find that funny because it’s the pattern I’ve seen my whole life, half Asian girls all wound up with white guys in a world that is 10% white, and half Asian guys are all single into late adulthood, I’ve seen this at my college 20 years ago and today. This is regardless if their dads or moms are Asian.
What’s even funnier to me is that how Wasian men claim they’re all so good looking and rich and even with all that money have even lower marital rates than full Asian men. The more I actually sit down and talk to Wasian guys, the more I realize how hard so many of them openly cope with the “we do fine, we have money!” hocus-pocus, my guess because their Asian parent told them this to insulate them from the sexual revolution that favors extremely hot men, and then white men next.
The worst part about it is that you’re in general not supposed to talk about any of this because of this conditioning that ‘love is love,’ (so long as it’s with a white person), and that it’s just mere coincidence that half-Asian women, regardless of their dads or moms are Asian, all wind up with white men.
In this case I even give WMAF daughters some brownie-points over AMWF daughters, because at very least WMAF daughters will hook up with an Asian or half-Asian guy before marrying a white guy, but my guess is that AMWF daughters won’t even bother and just beeline to eradicating the Asian genes in their blood.
Life is really, really hard for men and being hot as a man is basically the only real way to immunize yourself from all of this. And yet so many Asians are hellbent on getting with mid white people can then creating sons whose only real shot at “love” is to throw money at is. That’s probably the scariest part of it for me. I’ve had multiple women in my family openly brag to me about how they never loved their husbands, then at the same time I’ve had random women tell me they love me and buy me stuff and 100% of the time I got the impression it was cause I’m pretty as a male, and yes, this is because of my Asian looks. So it alarms me that there are so many self-hating Asians willing to toss that all away just for… whatever.
Some half Asian guy replied to my post about how many half Asians are a product of self hatred, coming in with the usual “we’re not all like that.”
15 second look at his profile reveals the standard Half-Asian male fare.
I call him out on it, and he doubles down on how he’s normal. I mean, what the hell else are these guys supposed to do? You only get one shot at life, so if someone calls you out, of course you’re going to deny reality. Some racist sexpat has a child with an Asian golddigger, or worse, a legitimate self-hater; what are the sons supposed to do? Of course they’re going to be like this, because that’s how they were raised; an entire childhood, well into adulthood, being subjected to the whims and dynamics of his parents.
My brother is a 43 year old virgin who loves Trump, worships money, and legitimately hates black people, and it’s because: A), he was around my father his entire life, and B) because his belief sets make him feel less insecure about himself being a 43 year old virgin that no woman ever truly desired.
My quest continues for half Asians who aren’t:
A) Extremely and proudly racist / Eurocentric / white supremacist
B) Overtly insecure / obsessed with their masculinity (especially over full Asians)
C) Obsessed with money and throwing it at women to generate interest they never got for free
D) Gay (see C)
Let’s be honest for a second, life is very hard, I get it. A lot of half Asians are born to these anti-feminist right wing white men and self hating Asian women, and you’re basically born like that as a Wasian, especially a male. You have no choice in how the world perceives you. By default a lot of them are extremely insecure about being Asian and desperately want to be white, on top of the fact that most of us have less than stellar dads in terms of looks. I get it; it’s hard. As I said, you’ll know you’re cute to girls at like, 5 years old. What are these guys supposed to do OTHER than overcompensate with racism and money?
My brother and I have the exact same genes. He often refers to himself as ‘good looking’ despite being a virgin and, when I asked him, he said that no woman has ever expressed interest in him. Which is hilarious, because I’ve heard him talk about having “good genes” before, thanks to this Nazi-ass culture of half Asians gassing themselves up for having a white parent and a KKAsian parent. I’ve stopped listening to everything and just assumed everyone is lying at this point, because life is really hard so people WILL lie about their motivations, and yes, choosing ONLY a white person to have kids with IS racist.
The first time a girl expressed interest in me, I think I was 11. She wasn’t Asian, because, as you guessed it, Asian women seem to loathe me, such as the Chinese British girl I met in London who told me “you should go back to China, you’d finally get laid.” As a result of how common bullying is against me for being Asian, I genuinely don’t think I am good looking, but I’ve had white / black / Indian women ask me to take them home when their boyfriends were like 5 feet away. Funnily enough, the only guys I’ve ever spoken to who experienced this are full Asian. Not to say all full Asians are like this; my former best friend is an adopted Korean who only likes white women, never got called hot once in his life, and the only white woman he’s ever gotten cheated on him. I spent my entire life around him and my brother, was fully cognizant of everything during out childhood, and neither one of them ever, EVER, had a woman express interest in them.
My guess is that saying “Wasians are good looking” is just wishful thinking from Asians who are so self hating that they think getting with the most chopped white guy / girl available will lead to children who are “good looking.” Which isn’t how the world works, in real time, in reality.
In the REAL world, the one I’ve had to live in, racism is alive and well, especially gendered racism, and my honest to god guess is that Asian guys who actually ARE sexy, are fundamentally hated by all the incels / femcels of every race, who cope with proximity to whiteness to feel like they’ve got a leg up on ethnic minority bad boys who women are out actively chasing. It’s like those black guys who hate black women cause they know black women are all out chasing the best looking, thugged out black dudes; the Asian corollary is probably women out chasing all the communist Chinese dudes with crazy bone structure, leading to lunatic gay guys like Alicia Liu’s white supremacist father.
The world is a vicious place, with all kinds of interpersonal conflict, and if my experiences with women cheating on their men is somewhat common, this must mean a lot of men and women are traumatized by it, and using “proximity to whiteness” as a way to dig themselves out of their hole is understandable. My uncle loves blabbing about how great white people are, how terrible China is, how pretty mixed race people are, but then he treats me, a mixed race guy, like dirt, and my guess is that he can smell on me what he never got, being short, ugly and obsessed with money and America. And the funniest part is Wasian people love to act like they’re being victimized by full Asians who exclude them when I was accepted into Asian groups since I was a teenager and nobody ever questioned the fact that I was Asian, and now I realize it might just be because I randomly inherited bone structure that was pretty enough to be accepted by Asians and hated by everyone else, including self hating Asians.
At the end of the day, we only get one shot at life, and some guys are just born winners and some guys losers. That causes a huge amount of trauma even if at the subconscious level. What the hell are some men supposed to do that women are incapable of loving them let alone spending time with them unless they throw astronomical amounts of money at her?
The only reason I keep this blog is because this amount of entitlement and self-hatred is honestly so nihilistic and crazy and white supremacist that in the long run, it will do so much irreparable damage to all the progress we’ve made as a species, but no one seems to care because everyone is just in it for themselves.
10 years ago on /r/hapas it was theorized that a lot of biracial Asian guys were gay, and I sort of just ignored them because I believed that it was probably genetic because I did believe that a lot of gay men were chasing Asian women. Foolishly, I believed that gay guys would use Asian women because the Asian woman wouldn’t mind an asexual guy who wouldn’t touch her, because she had bad experiences with Asian men’s sexuality.
Thinking back to my experiences with Asian American women, I now can understand that; because I was chased hard by non-Asian women while deep down wanting an Asian woman, and the Asian women I was interested in were almost universally hostile to me in a very emasculating way, to the point that I do believe that Asian women have a problem with Asian male sexuality. I used to have these extremely fine women ask me out and take me to bars and dinner and buy me drinks and the whole time I was thinking that I wished she was Asian. My guess now, 20 years later, is that this may have been my subconscious urging me to make the right genetic decision. Funnily enough, I actually only found some black girls on par with Asian girls lookswise.
I sort of balked at this subject of gay Wasians but was interested in it because my father was obsessed with gay men to an insane degree which I found weird because I viewed gay guys as a non-threat.
After moving to China however I noticed that gays weren’t really prevalent until recently; most couples I see are lesbian couples, and only in the last 3 or 4 years have I been seeing more gay guys, and there seems to be a really strong taint of misogyny in Chinese gays. Last night in a very bougie Western market I saw this Chinese guy and a white guy walk in, and a Chinese woman working there greeted him, and he yelled at her not to talk to him. My immediate thought was, this guy absolutely hates Chinese women, and probably because they view Chinese women as golddiggers.
So my guess is, that gay white men who go for Asian women, are just incels who have given up on the idea of a genuine, non-transactional relationship with a white woman, and Asian women are looking for a non-sexual white guy with money who is incapable of cheating. A true match made in hell. A lot of these white guys get with Asian women as a last ditch on a woman, but wind up with her not finding him attractive, so he just either becomes violent or goes all the way into men.
It’s interesting because looking back over 11 years at the old posts on /r/hapas, there were posts like this that I missed completely. I thought they were funny and ignored them just reading them in passing but this is actually crazy to realize. I do realize how lucky I was to have had women chase me even when I was broke, and I never got the impression it was about anything other than my appearance. So my running theory now is that many Wasian men are gay because they inherit physical unattractiveness from their white fathers and realize fairly early that their shot at being “attractive” is either pay heavily for it, or, never have a woman truly desire them.
I mean, this really scares me to my core. The first time I learned I was cute to girls was like 10, but now I think it starts for some guys even younger. Here’s a video of a Blasian girl with an Asian dad (she identifies as Asian, btw, which is hilarious compared to Wasians) who had a crush on an Asian guy at 5 years old and went on to marry him after chasing him at 17. And she’s pretty clear that it was about looks. The fact that I can relate to that is scary, because it now dawns on me that maybe this played a part in my mom’s hatred of me – representing Asian male sexuality and attractiveness.
I mean, think about it this way; we’re 60 years deep into the sexual revolution and female choice; at this point the whole idea of “not needing a man for money” is embedded in society and basically in the western world, your only real shot as a man at finding a woman who actually loves you, let alone tolerates you, is to be physically hot, which is decided at like 5 years old (even according to this Blasian woman). What the hell are the chopped sons of white losers and Asian asexual women supposed to do?
To think that there are a lot of guys out there that are genuinely invisible to women really terrifies me and deep down that’s why I’m so obsessed with this subject.
Also, I mean this with the utmost intention and sincerity: I am not promoting hatred against LGBT or gay people. I’m just interested in this subject, but in a different way than my father was, who HATED gay guys; but I may even think now that my dad was obsessed with this subject because he understood it as a “way out,” as well.
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