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The living hell of being a half Asian man with a white dad / Asian mom

You know – before we begin – I’d like to talk about how happy I used to be a long time ago. Then I learned that there’s something called “gendered racism” against Asian men, and it was everywhere and it cut the soul out of my body and even 17 years later I haven’t recovered. So, let me tell you how I really feel. I was in denial for years about how bad it was because my parents and Asian family successfully brainwashed me into thinking I was white – but around 23 I realized that I literally wasn’t. I recently looked at some kid photos of myself and realized that I looked way more dark and ethnic than I had ever imagined myself.

Also, let me stop you right there before you talk about “muh Wasian celebrities” or “Joji” or “Keanu” or “some hapa you know with a 300k a year job and his mid white wife.”

I’m talking about the generalities here of being half-Asian and male, in the western world. For every “successful Wasian” you can name, I can go outside and see 100 WMAF couples, 0 AMWF, and like 15 “Wasian” men walking around totally alone, even with their dad’s money. Whenever I look around and try to find a normal “Wasian” man, he’s always gay, weird, into extreme military shit (i.e., gay), or weird.

Reason why? NOBODY WANTS ASIAN LOOKS ON A MAN. Period. On women – Asian looks are passable because they provide companionship for lonely incel white dudes with cash on hand. But on men – forget it.

I’m just gonna copy and paste from Twitter.

Being a half-Asian male is basically a fate worse than death.

1) Our own mothers generally hate Asian male looks. Asian culture is ruthless and marrying a white man just because he’s white, not because you love him, is basically seen as “a thing one must do,” for no real reason other than “just because.”

2) Insane bullying only against Asian males, with Asian women joining in.

3) My own mother hoped for daughters, cause they’re easier to assimilate into western society than half Asian men. She told my brother this, and I recently learned from him about two years ago that she had told him this. My OWN MOTHER hoped for daughters.

4) 99% of half Asian women get with white men. Both AMWF and WMAF are like this. Of the two dozen or so Wasian girls I know, 100% of them married a white guy.

5) Dad was a Nazi sympathizing autist with major aspbergers. He was a Holocaust denier, read books by Pat Buchanan, Ezra Pound, Enoch Powell, and all kinds of far right stuff.

6) Mom tried to kill me on several occasions, I guess for looking too Asian.

7) Bullied for being Asian by non-Asian guys who used to get Asian girls.

8) Had an Asian girl tell me I should go back to China to get laid. She had a white boyfriend

9) Own family member bragged about how Caucasian one of my female cousin’s kids looked. “She doesn’t look Chinese at all! That’s awesome!” This was about October 2025.

10) Aunt’s boyfriend went on a rant about Muslims last CNY when we heard the call to prayer outside of their apartment building.

11) Met a Chinese girl at a party. Told her I was half-Chinese and she went “ew” and walked away

12) Most of my Asian American male friends are so mentally beaten they make fun of me for speaking Chinese. Most of them are single pushing 40.

13) 100% of my former friends made fun of me for being Asian.

15) My brother is a 40 year old Trump supporting Nazi who believes slavery should be reinstated. Thinks he’s white and wants to be an “all American boy.” Also a fucking virgin at 40.

16) My aunt always tries to ask me if I think I look more like dad or mom (white or Asian), hoping I say white. I don’t look white.

17) Mental problems from meeting white people and hearing them say racist shit thinking I won’t care because I’m half white.

18) Asians gaslight me constantly telling me I’m privileged and white when I’ve literally had the shit kicked out of me by Polish gangsters in Brooklyn. I look so Chinese that old Chinese men outside of China look at me and smile.

19) Every Asian girl in my family is with a white guy and these guys are uniformly ugly and / or racist or both.

20) Every half Asian girl I’ve ever met whether her mom or dad is white, gets with a white man.

21) Only girls who like me were Indian / black, mom made us break up by telling me black girl would give me AIDS. Exes were Indian and my dad shamed me with his religious brainwashing out of having sex with them, and yeah I believed him.

22) Because I’m tall people in the US think I’m mainland Chinese and treat me like absolute shit, especially if they’re Asian.

23) WMAF couples stare at me when I try to just eat lunch or dinner alone. I’ve had a couple just sit there and fucking look up with spoonfuls of congee in their mouth just looking at me like they were trying to gauge if I’m “okay” or not with their shit.

24) Police / customs agents have profiled me before coming back into the USA from China. I was born like 1.25 miles away from Laguardia airport.

25) Former “good friend” told me “bigguuhh Amelican penis” (South Park reference) when I told him I was going back to China. This same guy could only get with Asian and half-Asian girls.

26) When I talk about or try to complain about my racist white family my Chinese family just claims that I’m mentally ill and that I need to “focus on career”

27) my mom weighed 75 lbs at her death due to starving herself out of depression at marrying my dad

28) mom beat the shit out of my brother and I to take out her anger at getting with my Nazi dad

29) mom used to make fun of dad while he ate so he would eat with his face in his hands

30) mom would pull us into bed and have covert emotional incest

31) I’ve had literal Asian women roll their eyes at me and try to show PDA to their mid white boyfriends in front of me… for the crime of being (half) asian and sitting next to them in a church or airport

32) Gay Asian TSA agents harass me because they think I’m Chinese

33) get asked “where I’m from” almost once a week despite looking CLEARLY EuroAsian but that doesn’t mean shit because I’m basically full Chinaman to westerners

34) Asian Americans tell me to STFU bc I’m “white” but in China, cops looked me in face n were surprised I was foreign

35) There is ZERO community for biracial Asians bc most biracial Asians online are homosexuals emasculated by their WMAF golddigging moms and racist dads, and basically 100% of #Wasian girls marry white dudes

36) When I was like 11 my Chinese cousin used to bring home these huge Jewish guys and have loud sex with me downstairs, downright sexual abuse

37) Her sister told me that she couldn’t wait to leave China to “kiss all the white people in NYC” (NYC is 40% white)

Ever wonder why there are so few successful half-Asian men?

Relative to our numbers, there are virtually NO Asian looking half-Asians of any measure of success in America. Compare that to half-black, half-white people.

So, whenever someone states (the usual garbage argument): w-w-w-what about Keanu Reeves? Keanu’s father was a drug addicted WMAF half Asian who passed as full Asian, and married a model – thus Keanu is 1/4 Asian, but technically AMWF (Asian male / white female)

Then of course they name some other messed up half-Asian female celebrities from 20 years ago (ahem, ahem, a certain one who wound up in a sex cult). Or name some totally white passing 1/4 Asian person and have the BALLS to say: “see! Half Asians can be successful, if they’re only 1/4 Asian and look 100% white!”

There will NEVER be a half-Asian, Asian presenting president of the US. Obama even himself admitted that the reason he was proud to be black was because his mother said that “black guys were cool.” When an Asian woman marries a white man – she is saying “white men are cool.”

Big problem there; half-Asian men aren’t white. So basically you’re slammed in the face by this every day of your life from the day you’re born – this idea that Asian guys are not welcome in America… not even by our own parents. Add to it the usual autistic creepy weirdo + Asian mom combo, and there’s no real reason for there to be successful half-Asians in the western world.

“B-b-b-bbut what can I do to raise my half-Asian son well?”

I don’t know. You decided being Asian wasn’t worth it. You yourself said it was worthless on a man. Figure it out.

My shocking trip to America as an Asian passing half-Asian

These are some interesting tidbits I’d like to share as a half-Asian, Asian presenting male. I’ve been living abroad for a very long time and coming back to the US, I had some “interesting” experiences. I won’t share too much cause I’m guessing my family will recognize me.

  1. The guy at immigration started harassing me and his tone shifted after I told him I spent a long time on mainland China. He was acting like I wasn’t an American citizen. I won’t go into more detail about this because I already shared this with my family – who of course, gaslit me.
  2. While driving from the airport it was so unbelievable crappy in comparison to outside of the US, my uncle got laughed at by a cop for being Asian, and my family (who live in a skyscraper in a gentrified ghetto) were adamant about how it was superior to China, where it’s safe and affordable. These people only care about money. When bringing up how the cop was racist, my aunt goes “I just ignore it.”
  3. In Chinatown, it was basically 8 WMAF couples versus a single AMWF. The WMAF couple literally kept staring at me the entire time, for whatever reason, I’m guessing they wonder what a half-Asian looks like, or they think I’m full, or they feel like it’s awkward being surrounded by WMAF and a half-Asian guy from WMAF. Basically it’s endless WMAF and zero AMWF and a lot of these couple stare at me trying to figure out if their future kids will look “too Asian.”
  4. An aunt of mine has a Caucasian boyfriend who was going on and on about Muslims because I had just come back from an Arab country for holiday and was singing praises about how clean and beautiful it was. He kept saying that he wouldn’t have gone to the spots I went to because I would have gotten “blown up.” While talking to my aunt, bizarrely he came over and started behaving like one of those guys trying to protect and hover his girlfriend while she is talking to another man. He has a history of saying vile things about Chinese students, accusing many of being spies.
  5. They were showing photos of their grandkids and they complete ignored the full Asian boy while going on and on about their mixed race granddaughters (most of these couples are happy to have daughters over sons). Even my wife noticed this.

At this point I’m prepared to be gaslit about this. Asians are so insanely obsessed with wealth and status to the point that they legitimately ONLY care about escaping the low statusness of their own ethnicity. As I said, half-Asians are the ones to watch out for.