I just wanted a culture all along

If I had to sum up why I’m so upset about being “Eurasian,” it’s primarily because I feel deprived of a culture.

I seem to be in the extreme minority of people who doesn’t care about white people AT ALL. I simply don’t care. I’ve never cared. If that makes me an extremist, then whatever. I’m at the point now where as I get older I look more and more Chinese to the extent that even here in China people barely look at me. Last time I was in Korea people just ran up to me and spoke to me in Korean so there’s that.

Unlike most half-Asians, by pure stroke of luck I inherited the same Asian features that makes women go crazy over those Korean actors, so my life experience has been a result of not being desperate for white approval, not self-hating, and not white-worshipping. I was thinking last night about the number of white women I’ve rejected and it must be in the dozens. All because the whole time I just wanted an Asian girl. I’ve been asked out by women that rich dudes can’t even get, and the whole time, I distinctly remember just not caring at all about them cause they weren’t Chinese. I’ve never, ever, ever had a crush on a woman who was not Asian or black and now that I’ve finally accepted that I will and always will be seen as Asian to the world I realize looking back even the way I thought was Asian, but being surrounded by self-haters and their white heroes, I got severely sidetracked. I remember growing up, being forced to hang out with white people, and having to respond with random actresses I thought were hot, when I couldn’t even think of a single one. I remember having a crush on Lisa Leslie before I found a single white woman attractive.

That’s what I’m mostly upset about. I’m married to an Asian woman and self-hating Asians and white supremacists (which is basically most people, whether they admit it or not), act like I made a mistake by reinvesting my blood into China. I remember having a crush on multiple Chinese girls in high school and them being rude to me and I think this lead to my mental breakdown that I’ve buried down for 20 years.

The worst part of all of this is that I let self-hating Asians drag me into a world where they used white people as a way to feel better about themselves and it had me second guessing and acting weird when I basically won the minute I came out of the womb and I had nothing to prove.

My whole life even since I was a child I wanted to be Chinese, to marry a Chinese woman, to eat Chinese food every day. That’s all I wanted. And my mother threw that away because she had mental problems or had personal beef with Asian men or her dad or whatever, or because she wanted some white guy she could dominate and belittle with no consequence. But even she parenting my brother (who looks more like my dad), and me, differently.

The reason I’m so obsessed with looks is because I think that the reason this happened is because Asian women can be hyper asexual / money oriented so they don’t want the super hot Asian guys and want some ugly white guy she can use as an ATM / punching bag. That makes sense when I realize my mom probably saw me as having potential to be chased by girls and decided she hated seeing that cause it reminded her of hot Asian guys who burned her, and so she tried to kill me.

As for why most half-Asians are whitewashed, well…. if I extrapolated what I suspect, most of them aren’t hot, since they look more ambiguous (as I said I probably fit more into the extreme end of K-drama aesthetic ideals), so they are trained by their moms to just throw money at women, and thus think they can buy their way out of their situation by throwing money at a white woman.

It’s funny cause the only times I see half-Asians desperate for approval or expressing the same opinions as me, they tend to be women. Now I realize that being a hot guy is basically like being a woman, so it makes sense that I’m like this. My brain is incapable of functioning like most mid guys (which is like 99% of men) conceptualize the world. Ironically, in China, I’m considered “average” lookswise. Heh.

What’s causing Wasian males to be incel?

Before anyone here goes “oh he’s so good looking” because of your colonized brain like many men on AsianMasculinity, he’s not good looking, because if he was good looking he wouldn’t look so miserable and wouldn’t be complaining. I know actually attractive full Asian men IRL and they know they’re attractive cause women chase them and call them good looking to their faces.

I see hapa guys IRL who are super tall (like 6’6″) and they never seem to have partners. Online I see a lot of hapa men post their pics and just say they struggle with women liking them.

As a hapa guy myself women have always been vocal about how hot they find me but I also have really strong Asian facial features like pronounced cheekbones that girls really find cute / hot. I have encountered the “I don’t like Asian guys” before but usually there’s an Asian or Indian girl who will find me hot. Having very strong Asian features (ironically something white worshipping Asians hate), actually saved me from a lifetime of being a self hating loser.

I feel like dating has become so hard now that unless you’re explicitly hot, you’re not going to be able to find a partner who really cares about you. This applies to a lot of white guys too, so they go for Asian women looking for a meal ticket, and then the kids will just inherit the average features thus perpetuating the cycle. And then hapa guys will blame it on their race.

“Wasians are so hot!”

Why am I not able to get dates? : r/AsianMasculinity

Here’s another banger.

I personally know a Chinese girl who got dumped by her ABC boyfriend (a friend of mine, pretty handsome), so she ran off to the UK and married this literal 5’4″ white incel for a visa.

That’s what happened here. Women KNOW their sons are gonna suffer from permanent sexual invisibility to women, so I’m guessing a lot of WMAF moms tell their sons to get into STEM or something. But it’s 2025 and this guy has women calling him a 2/10 to his face.

For reference I’ve had girls tell me to my face they wanna take me home and smush, and most of them just viewed me as basically full Asian.

I think it’s amazing that self-hating Asians convince themselves that marrying hideous white dudes that are rejected by literally every other race of women, create hot kids. In fact I give this guy credit for not believing that he’s a super hot Wasian.

Then the kids are so unattractive to women that girls tell them to their face how unattractive they are, they become autistic as a result of natural selection trying to undo their fathers’ cheating of natural selection, it’s wild.

BTW: this is a post someone made about an Laotian guy I found from years ago.

Wasian gets rejected by Asian girl

Here’s a clip of a Wasian being rejected by an Asian girl. Her reasoning being: he’s not attractive. It’s that simple. Women reading this KNOW it’s that simple.

So, what was the point of his Asian mom marrying his presumably unattractive dad? White genes?

What benefit did he get from it? Maybe that’s why these women insist on their sons studying hard and making a lot of money to buy a woman somewhere down the line.

It’s funny that the entire justification for Asian peoples’ obsession with whites is “beautiful hapas” but the kids just grow up to be as mid as their white parent, and on top of facing casual racism now carry the burden of being sexually invisible in the white culture their moms tried to marry into – the same white culture where women chase hot guys like they’re on steroids.

A lot of Asian women “settle” for white men after hooking up with hot Asian guys, or having bad experiences with Asian guys, or just wanting to be white, but this still leads to the same result: unattractive male sons.

This seems to explain why hapa males seem to struggle so much with women, because their fathers basically cheated evolution and you can’t actually cheat evolution, because attractiveness / health, are immutable qualities especially for males.

Elliot Rodger noticed that black / Asian kids around him were losing their virginity at around 13 years old, and he was actually correct in noticing that girls didn’t like him enough to involve him in that. Why? Because his dad cheated natural selection. Technically, Elliot Rodger shouldn’t even have existed.

This is the biggest concern about the WMAF thing. On top of all the self-hatred, racism against AM, there’s now millions of immutably unbangable hapa males who will take out their anger on full Asian men.

Wasian in France can’t get laid with his heckin’ white girls

Obviously he’s WMAF, his mom HAD to marry a white man from a white country. And now you’ve got guys like this who can’t do the most basic thing young men can do: get girls. Because of his looks. Look at how low his cheekbones are.

So where do we go from here?

Even me I realized I lucked out early and outperformed even white dudes with girls because I inherited a more Asian skull shape, while this guy looks like JD Vance with Asian eyes. Every decision I’ve made in my life was due to this realization of how lucky I am.

With other women they have a bare minimum for looks but I don’t think Asian women care so long as they get their means to an end. Status, visa, money. The kid is an afterthought.

What’s really terrible about that is that culture has shifted to women picking guys for appearance, and even the women here admit that full Asians look better. Every woman who asked me out just went on the basis that I was Asian, not mixed, or at least my bone structure is Asian.

So now there’s millions of half-incel, half-Asian guys who legit can’t compete in the market ON TOP of the insanity at home.

More on the low status of mixed-Asian males with perpetual “identity crises”

For those that are interested:

Asian culture is unique in that Asian women will actively avoid hot Asian men due to fear of being cheated on. Asian women have notoriously low libido.

So they seek LITERAL white incels to manipulate and withhold sex from.

On top of that there’s Asians who just flat out hate, I mean REALLY HATE, Asians, and make it their life goal to escape being Asian. They don’t care at all about racism from whites and actually actively seek to partake in it.

Basically that’s what WMAF is.

On the other hand you have AMWF where Asian men throw money white or non-Asian women while hating themselves and you get similar results.

This means on average, the average Wasian from WMAF in general very low on the attractiveness rating, which is bad on its own, but when you pair that with 2020’s female sexual selection, where women all want the hottest guys in the west, it’s very bad for most Wasians.

On top of that, you have the usual tonedeaf white dad who doesn’t care about his son’s negative experiences, or he’s openly racist looking to “get revenge on mudsharks.” And the Asian mom simply doesn’t care because she got her visa / money / whatever.

Then they claim all half-Asians are “beautiful” to avoid scrutiny, when what they mean is, half-Asians are not fully Asian, thus “beautiful,” but in reality we get treated as fully Asian by non-Asians.

What the hell is gonna happen as more and more half-Asian men come into this world being told by their own mothers that they’re inferior? THIS is what the “identity crisis” is – just a bunch of half-Asians whose Asian parent was a white supremacist – yet the child doesn’t look white.

Why half-Asians are insane / self-hating

A lot of people don’t know this, but Kalergi – of the infamous ‘Kalergi Plan’ – was half-Japanese, through his mother. The trauma of what he went through due to being the product of a white man and an Asian woman was what sent him on his path to supposedly “destroy Europe.”

Again, let me reiterate, this is NORMAL for many WMAF (and even some AMWF) Wasians.

Asian mom hates all Asian men / people
Asian mom wants white kids, not Asian looking kids
Asian mom (like mine), wanted daughters, not sons, as sons are too much trouble
White dad ignores this because he’s happy he has a woman who worships his whiteness rather than those pesky coalburning / mudshark feminist white women
Half-Asian son gets bullied and marginalized by the same community his Asian parent was desperate to integrate into

Honestly though, Kalergi was an odd one out. From what it looks like 90% of Wasians act like, talk like, and only hang out with white people, or are fully blown autistic, or are deeply pathologically insecure about not being fully white, since that’s what their parents wanted. And so many of them are gay, too.

There’s zero point in being proud to be Asian as a mixed person

To start off, let me say I was never self hating, I was always overtly proud of being Asian; I don’t know, maybe this was just to be rebellious against my white worshipping Chinese family. Last time I saw them the were talking, practically bragging, about how my female mixed cousins “didn’t look Chinese at all.”

However, I did eventually go through a stage where I didn’t want to be Asian because ALL ASIAN PEOPLE I KNEW sent the clear message to me that white was better. And I briefly became a Neo Nazi. Perhaps the worst part of it was that I rejected non-white women who genuinely loved me, because my racist white dad and his religious psychosis convinced me that women were all whores, and that no woman would want a half-Asian guy, only a white guy.

Now I know the usual libshit, happy go lucky Wasian crowd will say “being proud of your race is dumb,” but that’s just the usual gaslighting nonsense that these people say because I’ve literally been bullied for being Asian for most of my life, to the point of my mother telling me to not tell people. And that’s exactly what Wasians are, as a group, a bunch of deeply insecure men and women whose entire existence is inflated by their insecurity, hence making up all kinds of claims about being superior and special because they’re mixed with white.

But now that everything in my life is said and done, let me earnestly say that the situation is pathetic.

Most Asians are self hating. Outside on the street, it’s 100 to 1 WMAF to AMWF. I don’t care about white women at all, but it’s a good metric of how bad it is. And don’t get me started on Wasian men; Wasian women get with white men at almost universal rates and even the stereotypical “good looking, tall” Wasian guys I see never have women with them. And most Wasian males AREN’T good looking and probably effed in the head anyways due to their moms’ racist scheming.

I have Asian men in my life who center their entire existence around being “basically white” and getting a white woman despite being 40 and not having a woman, or being in a sexless, childless relationship with a white woman, or having been cheated on by a white woman. On top of that, because of the way I look and carry myself, I guess I come off as “too Asian” and my former friends were rude to me for being “too Asian.” I’ve had Asian women with their white partner roll their eyes and try to move away from me in public for looking too Asian. I’ve had Asian American military men mean mug me in public because they mistook me or a mainland Chinese person, which isn’t the first time I’ve heard that; my grandmother says I look Northern Chinese. When I mention that I find black or Asian women more beautiful than white women and would rather have a relationship where I don’t have to code-switch all the time, they look at me like I’m a loser. My brother at this point is a 40 year old who loves Trump and told me he wants to look like a “real all-American boy,” while complaining about white women with black men.

Asian people’s entire existence is about trying to be white, getting white peoples’ approval. My mother is practically a statistic when it comes to foreign born women marring broke, openly racist white men; for what, exactly? I read several stories of Chinese women marrying men who killed them, and the stories are almost always the same: she had a Masters degree (I get it, gotta marry up with le heckin’ education, right?), the guy was an open racist, he was legitimately ugly by white standards, he didn’t really work, she was vicious and brutal to him, she went insane from living in his little white house in his little white town. My mom used to tell my dad the way he ate was disgusting to the point that he covered his face with his hand while chewing. And my mom hated going to my dad’s rural white town so bad she forbade me from living there as part of her will when she died.

But she still married him. On top off that she told me to marry only a Chinese girl. Not that I care (I like Asian girls and not physically into white women), but her hypocrisy astounds me. How terrible are Asian men that women are willing to die for it? If it’s so important to overlook a man’s racism in favor of his education, potential wealth, etc, then what’s the point in being Asian? What’s the point in being anything other than a greedy monster who believes love doesn’t exist and marriage is merely for convenience and upward mobility? (Oh wait, I just described 99% of people).

I just realized this past month several shocking things: 1) I may have been a visa baby. 2) My mother definitely wanted me dead. And 3) My dad was legitimately racist to a point that I myself didn’t want to admit it. He read me Rudyard Kipling books and only yesterday I found out that the dude was a legit dyed in the blue racist…. against Asians.

The whole thing, this pretending Wasians are all good looking despite marrying hideous, objectively ugly white guys, being openly racist against other Asians, etc., is all a cover up for the fact that self-hatred is the default state of Asian people. It’s not possible to be truly good looking if your father is truly ugly. I know for a fact people treat me worse because I’m half-Asian, or maybe more accurately, because I’m PROUD of being Asian and don’t want to associate with these white worshipping losers or this cursed alliance between racist white men and self-hating Asians. People call me an “n-lover,” all the time, simply because I reject being white.

That’s why nobody can name a half-Asian male success story of any real merit, where the guy is legitimately attractive, is actually loved by women and the women he gets (not getting divorced like the Miami Heat coach), etc., etc. All these guys that have become sex symbols over biracial Asians are all monoracial Asians from Asia.

This is so cringe

I don’t know how to describe this image. Cringe? Corny? Bougie? It’s like every single worst skincrawling dweeb shit put together. It’s so not sexy. It’s the literal OPPOSITE of sexy. Who made this? What pencil dicked hunched over 5’5″ Jewish guy in a sexless relationship with his Chinese “girlfriend” made this and thought it was a good idea? Did you know my aunt has been in a relationship with this 5’5″ Jewish guy who makes comments about “Chinese student spies” and Muslims non stop while he stands in the corner at CNY and just mopes? This guy gets yelled at non-stop by my aunt, called stupid to his face, and he’s RICH. On top of that they’re both in their 60’s and I’m positive they’re both virgins.

All these unfuckable Jewish guys celebrate this as proof that “hey look, women want us,” and then celebrate their dorky Asian looking sons. Keep in mind most half-Asian sons look pretty Asian but not in the good way, like, in the OFF way, like they carry unattractive Caucasian genes that caused their fathers to be rejected, and then on top of that they look Asian, which as we all know, is never going to be really accepted unless it’s on a woman.

Reminder, it doesn’t really even matter how “good” Wasian guys look cause most of them are gonna be incel anyways. Their fathers were incel and paid a Chinese woman to give them kids, while rejecting her own men. Think about how crazy that’ll be on a huge enough scale.

Here’s three image of so called “good looking, ambiguous” Wasians showing the kind of women that want them. None of them do.

If THAT guy has trouble dating, imagine how 5’6″ half-Jewish half-Chinese boys with self-hating moms and opportunistic cringe dads are gonna do LOL.

For reference, I’m writing this as a basically fully Chinese looking male who got bullied ruthlessly for it my entire life, even by Asian girls, my mom tried to kill me for looking too Asian, and I also lost my virginity at 12 (same as some of my Asian friends) by white / Asian / black girls just looking to smash. I basically got saved from this CRINGE Elliot Rodger shit by pure fluke of chance that I looked “too Asian.”

It’s so goddamned corny. Try to see this all from my perspective: I’m a Chinese looking son of a Chinese ultra feminist woman who tried to murder me on several occasions and told me and my brother to my face that she wished she had daughters, not sons. ON TOP OF THAT, I’ve had girls tell me they want to fuck me to my face. Now imagine me reading this autistic, incel, short-man complex Asian fetish shit and seeing hapa males pretend they’re supermen for being mixed with Jew / white. LOL

What exactly is a “Wasian?”

Let’s start with what we know:

Ugly white guys with personality issues LOVE inserting themselves into Asian spaces (lol) because it makes them feel big and handsome after no woman ever finding them hot, especially since white women are sex selecting “hot” guys like there’s no tomorrow.
Asian women LOVE using white guys or money or visas / withholding sex / furthering their life goals, to avoid having sex with Asian men for free, or to avoid getting cheated on by an Asian guy with options.
MOST sane Asian women prefer Asian men.

This is what a Wasian is. The product of this pattern.

MOST of us are thrust into this world with zero explanation for being mixed with white (men), and yet having to deal with racism against Asian men. That means that most “Wasians” are pathologically insecure about being seen as Asian men (to the extent that our moms went out of their way to marry a literal incel who cheated natural selection). There’s no overarching theme of “Wasian supremacy” other than “Asian man bad.”

And the reality is yes, we live in a world where the REST of the world that ISN’T composed of leering, creepy, hideously ugly white men and their self-loathing Asian partners who want a sexless ATM to leech off of – still has the ability to use their eyes to judge “Wasian” men.

So, as a result, most Wasian men are promised to be seen as these super awesome amazing people but wind up just being blasted in the face with the full reality that they’re basically a mix between ugly white genes and ugly Asian genes – thus sexually invisible.