I’ve had multiple Asian women in my family admit to me at several different points that they never loved their white husbands, maybe because they saw how I was struggling with my ethnicity, but I think also women tend to open up to me more because I inherited pretty Asian male features so I’m fully aware of women’s true nature. The thing is, women reading this KNOW I’m telling the truth. Even my mom would literally bully my dad WHILE HE WAS EATING to the point he covered his face with his hand during dinner.
But most white guys can’t deal with it and they marry some asexual, man-hating Asian golddigger that is only with them for the money, but Asian women can just have zero filter so it will slip out that she says something to his face like “I never loved you,” or “the kids aren’t yours,” or something like that.
That’s why there are SO MANY cases of Asian women getting murdered by their white man, and the kids sometimes get smoked too, maybe cause of infidelity. Asian women are just so notoriously pragmatic about life that marrying some ugly incel racist white guy is just seen as the “thing to do,” love be damned.
That’s why so many half Asian guys are gay. Being told from day one that “race doesn’t matter” but your mom literally married a white guy ONLY for the money or ONLY because he’s white, must be so confusing. Imagine having it shoved in your face since day one that women don’t actually love, let alone like men; it’s probably so cataclysmic for hapa males, and many swear off the idea of legitimate, heterosexual love completely.
On top of that, life is extremely hard. In 2026 to get a woman you basically have to be extremely rich or extremely pretty, which is why so many rich white guys want Asian women; because even the money can’t save them from women’s facial pickiness. So now the sons are born with their white dad’s narrow ugly faces just because their Asian moms picked an ugly dude for the money. And the sons are, for lack of a better word, completely fucked and wind up just throwing money at white women and attending little stupid Wasian parties.
NVIDIA CEO Jensen Huang’s half-Asian daughter is with a white guy while his son is still single. This is the same guy who “inspires” all the chopped Asian men in the west to become billionaires and throw money at white women.
I find that funny because it’s the pattern I’ve seen my whole life, half Asian girls all wound up with white guys in a world that is 10% white, and half Asian guys are all single into late adulthood, I’ve seen this at my college 20 years ago and today. This is regardless if their dads or moms are Asian.
What’s even funnier to me is that how Wasian men claim they’re all so good looking and rich and even with all that money have even lower marital rates than full Asian men. The more I actually sit down and talk to Wasian guys, the more I realize how hard so many of them openly cope with the “we do fine, we have money!” hocus-pocus, my guess because their Asian parent told them this to insulate them from the sexual revolution that favors extremely hot men, and then white men next.
The worst part about it is that you’re in general not supposed to talk about any of this because of this conditioning that ‘love is love,’ (so long as it’s with a white person), and that it’s just mere coincidence that half-Asian women, regardless of their dads or moms are Asian, all wind up with white men.
In this case I even give WMAF daughters some brownie-points over AMWF daughters, because at very least WMAF daughters will hook up with an Asian or half-Asian guy before marrying a white guy, but my guess is that AMWF daughters won’t even bother and just beeline to eradicating the Asian genes in their blood.
Life is really, really hard for men and being hot as a man is basically the only real way to immunize yourself from all of this. And yet so many Asians are hellbent on getting with mid white people can then creating sons whose only real shot at “love” is to throw money at is. That’s probably the scariest part of it for me. I’ve had multiple women in my family openly brag to me about how they never loved their husbands, then at the same time I’ve had random women tell me they love me and buy me stuff and 100% of the time I got the impression it was cause I’m pretty as a male, and yes, this is because of my Asian looks. So it alarms me that there are so many self-hating Asians willing to toss that all away just for… whatever.
I’m turning 40 this month and before someone calls me an unc, my life went by in a flash. I spent the last 20 years trying to piece together what happened to my brother and I and what I’ve learned is that neither one of us had any free will.
In China, I’ve noticed there are zero autistic kids. Like maybe there are but you just don’t see them that much. Statistically they exist, but I’ve never seen one personally. I have seen autistic mixed kids though in China, which is weird, and I know full Asian American autistic kids exist (Andrew Yang’s son).
What that probably means is that autism is Mother Nature counteracting men who should not have reproduced without the help of money / status / citizenship, since nature loathes mistakes. There are theories it’s caused by abusive mothers but women will always just become abusive when they wind up with a man that they don’t find hot (which is like 90% of women).
It’s so weird that Chinese diaspora ran away from the motherland because of “le evil communists” yet get wiped out in 1 to 2 generations as their daughters marry white autists or their sons are autistic and socially-illiterate due to severe Tiger Mothering. And then they have the balls to say “CCP bad” and yet when you go to China you see happy people getting by everywhere, which is probably why they didn’t want their kids to go back to China in the first place, because then they’d realize diaspora aren’t normal Chinese people. They acted like China was some depopulated Holocaust of starving people when it’s like 1.5 billion people doing alright.
I realize I probably wound up back here by just pure natural selection / lack of free will. I have an ABC friend who has a friend who took the virginities of 3 or 4 Asian girls in his friend group and went back to HK not even speaking Canto and just living off of women. That’s what I’m talking about. Living in the west has no purpose to an Asian person unless they’re there for money to cope with being ugly. Again, harping on this kind of thing, I learned I was pretty to girls in childhood, whereas my brother has never once had a woman tell him to his face he’s attractive. And he’s the most anti-communist, MAGA glazer imaginable. That’s not a coincidence.
Some half Asian guy replied to my post about how many half Asians are a product of self hatred, coming in with the usual “we’re not all like that.”
15 second look at his profile reveals the standard Half-Asian male fare.
I call him out on it, and he doubles down on how he’s normal. I mean, what the hell else are these guys supposed to do? You only get one shot at life, so if someone calls you out, of course you’re going to deny reality. Some racist sexpat has a child with an Asian golddigger, or worse, a legitimate self-hater; what are the sons supposed to do? Of course they’re going to be like this, because that’s how they were raised; an entire childhood, well into adulthood, being subjected to the whims and dynamics of his parents.
My brother is a 43 year old virgin who loves Trump, worships money, and legitimately hates black people, and it’s because: A), he was around my father his entire life, and B) because his belief sets make him feel less insecure about himself being a 43 year old virgin that no woman ever truly desired.
My quest continues for half Asians who aren’t:
A) Extremely and proudly racist / Eurocentric / white supremacist
B) Overtly insecure / obsessed with their masculinity (especially over full Asians)
C) Obsessed with money and throwing it at women to generate interest they never got for free
D) Gay (see C)
Let’s be honest for a second, life is very hard, I get it. A lot of half Asians are born to these anti-feminist right wing white men and self hating Asian women, and you’re basically born like that as a Wasian, especially a male. You have no choice in how the world perceives you. By default a lot of them are extremely insecure about being Asian and desperately want to be white, on top of the fact that most of us have less than stellar dads in terms of looks. I get it; it’s hard. As I said, you’ll know you’re cute to girls at like, 5 years old. What are these guys supposed to do OTHER than overcompensate with racism and money?
My brother and I have the exact same genes. He often refers to himself as ‘good looking’ despite being a virgin and, when I asked him, he said that no woman has ever expressed interest in him. Which is hilarious, because I’ve heard him talk about having “good genes” before, thanks to this Nazi-ass culture of half Asians gassing themselves up for having a white parent and a KKAsian parent. I’ve stopped listening to everything and just assumed everyone is lying at this point, because life is really hard so people WILL lie about their motivations, and yes, choosing ONLY a white person to have kids with IS racist.
The first time a girl expressed interest in me, I think I was 11. She wasn’t Asian, because, as you guessed it, Asian women seem to loathe me, such as the Chinese British girl I met in London who told me “you should go back to China, you’d finally get laid.” As a result of how common bullying is against me for being Asian, I genuinely don’t think I am good looking, but I’ve had white / black / Indian women ask me to take them home when their boyfriends were like 5 feet away. Funnily enough, the only guys I’ve ever spoken to who experienced this are full Asian. Not to say all full Asians are like this; my former best friend is an adopted Korean who only likes white women, never got called hot once in his life, and the only white woman he’s ever gotten cheated on him. I spent my entire life around him and my brother, was fully cognizant of everything during out childhood, and neither one of them ever, EVER, had a woman express interest in them.
My guess is that saying “Wasians are good looking” is just wishful thinking from Asians who are so self hating that they think getting with the most chopped white guy / girl available will lead to children who are “good looking.” Which isn’t how the world works, in real time, in reality.
In the REAL world, the one I’ve had to live in, racism is alive and well, especially gendered racism, and my honest to god guess is that Asian guys who actually ARE sexy, are fundamentally hated by all the incels / femcels of every race, who cope with proximity to whiteness to feel like they’ve got a leg up on ethnic minority bad boys who women are out actively chasing. It’s like those black guys who hate black women cause they know black women are all out chasing the best looking, thugged out black dudes; the Asian corollary is probably women out chasing all the communist Chinese dudes with crazy bone structure, leading to lunatic gay guys like Alicia Liu’s white supremacist father.
The world is a vicious place, with all kinds of interpersonal conflict, and if my experiences with women cheating on their men is somewhat common, this must mean a lot of men and women are traumatized by it, and using “proximity to whiteness” as a way to dig themselves out of their hole is understandable. My uncle loves blabbing about how great white people are, how terrible China is, how pretty mixed race people are, but then he treats me, a mixed race guy, like dirt, and my guess is that he can smell on me what he never got, being short, ugly and obsessed with money and America. And the funniest part is Wasian people love to act like they’re being victimized by full Asians who exclude them when I was accepted into Asian groups since I was a teenager and nobody ever questioned the fact that I was Asian, and now I realize it might just be because I randomly inherited bone structure that was pretty enough to be accepted by Asians and hated by everyone else, including self hating Asians.
At the end of the day, we only get one shot at life, and some guys are just born winners and some guys losers. That causes a huge amount of trauma even if at the subconscious level. What the hell are some men supposed to do that women are incapable of loving them let alone spending time with them unless they throw astronomical amounts of money at her?
The only reason I keep this blog is because this amount of entitlement and self-hatred is honestly so nihilistic and crazy and white supremacist that in the long run, it will do so much irreparable damage to all the progress we’ve made as a species, but no one seems to care because everyone is just in it for themselves.
10 years ago on /r/hapas it was theorized that a lot of biracial Asian guys were gay, and I sort of just ignored them because I believed that it was probably genetic because I did believe that a lot of gay men were chasing Asian women. Foolishly, I believed that gay guys would use Asian women because the Asian woman wouldn’t mind an asexual guy who wouldn’t touch her, because she had bad experiences with Asian men’s sexuality.
Thinking back to my experiences with Asian American women, I now can understand that; because I was chased hard by non-Asian women while deep down wanting an Asian woman, and the Asian women I was interested in were almost universally hostile to me in a very emasculating way, to the point that I do believe that Asian women have a problem with Asian male sexuality. I used to have these extremely fine women ask me out and take me to bars and dinner and buy me drinks and the whole time I was thinking that I wished she was Asian. My guess now, 20 years later, is that this may have been my subconscious urging me to make the right genetic decision. Funnily enough, I actually only found some black girls on par with Asian girls lookswise.
I sort of balked at this subject of gay Wasians but was interested in it because my father was obsessed with gay men to an insane degree which I found weird because I viewed gay guys as a non-threat.
After moving to China however I noticed that gays weren’t really prevalent until recently; most couples I see are lesbian couples, and only in the last 3 or 4 years have I been seeing more gay guys, and there seems to be a really strong taint of misogyny in Chinese gays. Last night in a very bougie Western market I saw this Chinese guy and a white guy walk in, and a Chinese woman working there greeted him, and he yelled at her not to talk to him. My immediate thought was, this guy absolutely hates Chinese women, and probably because they view Chinese women as golddiggers.
So my guess is, that gay white men who go for Asian women, are just incels who have given up on the idea of a genuine, non-transactional relationship with a white woman, and Asian women are looking for a non-sexual white guy with money who is incapable of cheating. A true match made in hell. A lot of these white guys get with Asian women as a last ditch on a woman, but wind up with her not finding him attractive, so he just either becomes violent or goes all the way into men.
It’s interesting because looking back over 11 years at the old posts on /r/hapas, there were posts like this that I missed completely. I thought they were funny and ignored them just reading them in passing but this is actually crazy to realize. I do realize how lucky I was to have had women chase me even when I was broke, and I never got the impression it was about anything other than my appearance. So my running theory now is that many Wasian men are gay because they inherit physical unattractiveness from their white fathers and realize fairly early that their shot at being “attractive” is either pay heavily for it, or, never have a woman truly desire them.
I mean, this really scares me to my core. The first time I learned I was cute to girls was like 10, but now I think it starts for some guys even younger. Here’s a video of a Blasian girl with an Asian dad (she identifies as Asian, btw, which is hilarious compared to Wasians) who had a crush on an Asian guy at 5 years old and went on to marry him after chasing him at 17. And she’s pretty clear that it was about looks. The fact that I can relate to that is scary, because it now dawns on me that maybe this played a part in my mom’s hatred of me – representing Asian male sexuality and attractiveness.
I mean, think about it this way; we’re 60 years deep into the sexual revolution and female choice; at this point the whole idea of “not needing a man for money” is embedded in society and basically in the western world, your only real shot as a man at finding a woman who actually loves you, let alone tolerates you, is to be physically hot, which is decided at like 5 years old (even according to this Blasian woman). What the hell are the chopped sons of white losers and Asian asexual women supposed to do?
To think that there are a lot of guys out there that are genuinely invisible to women really terrifies me and deep down that’s why I’m so obsessed with this subject.
Also, I mean this with the utmost intention and sincerity: I am not promoting hatred against LGBT or gay people. I’m just interested in this subject, but in a different way than my father was, who HATED gay guys; but I may even think now that my dad was obsessed with this subject because he understood it as a “way out,” as well.
I’m 40 next month, and if I had to sum up everything I’ve learned in my life, it’s that life is not fair and you’ll never win by complaining about evil and wrong in this world (such as Wasians having Wasian only meetups), because most people just take what they’re given, and they run with it.
Look at this objectively; I’ve seen entire lives come and go. I’ve seen certain friends of mine go through life not having a single woman ever express interest in them, while I’ve had women call me hot consistently my entire life.
For a guy like the guy in the video – what is he supposed to do? He has a white dad and a self hating Asian mom who got together because no woman wanted his father and his mother hated the way she looked; now he’s stuck like this, forever. What the hell is he supposed to do? He’s going to cling to being half white as long and as hard as he can because it’s his only real shot of feeling good about himself when he has parents that wouldn’t be together were it not for their races.
To these lunatics, it’s perfectly fine to brag about being half white, and you can see on their little threads how they talk about shit like “it’s okay for other ethnic minorities to have meetups, but Wasians can’t?” It’s just thinly veiled alt right white supremacist rhetoric in a half Asian package, which makes sense because so many white racists marry Asians.
It’s funny because in China, it’s looked down on to mix with whites, not because of racism, but more so because of lookism. The kid will have a harder time in life if he’s ugly, especially the boys. My self hating uncle who worships education and the west said that in passing to someone else at dinner, because he knew he was ugly. So all these ugly Asians had kids with ugly white people and now they have little ugly meetups bragging about their insecurities, while IRL all, and I mean ALL the half Asian women I’ve known have been with white guys and every single half-Asian I’ve met barring 1 or 2, came off as extremely try hard, insecure incels.
Here’s another image I found relevant to this post. Look at how that girl can’t even bring herself to look at the dude. The whole Wasian thing is his coping mechanism. When I was his age I had 4 different black girls and 1 white girl ask me to prom, and I rejected all of them cause I wanted a Chinese girl in my class. I never once got the impression that it was about anything other than looks. Not ONCE in my entire life did I ever get the impression that women liked me because I was mixed, if anything it was because I was Asian.
Lastly, here’s one of my favorite takedowns of Wasian arrogance and narcissism, from none other than black women on LipStickAlley.
A lot of people have been talking about the Wasian only gatherings in NY and LA. No other mixed races allowed, only half white people. Very deliberate choice, too. Now the Wasians are talking about how they are the new “Khazakh lobby.”
If the pure narcissism of that doesn’t make you cringe, then look at their excuses. “We exist, we deserve the right to be proud of our white side as well as our Asian side!” Or more commonly, I’ve seen them go “criticizing our right to be proud to be half white is racist!”
This is in 2026, years after we were promised race didn’t exist but every single interracial couple you see involves a white guy + Asian woman.
Why are Wasians like this? Well, I almost went down that path, and due to my insecurity over being part Asian, I too liked to cling to these ridiculous beauty myths and whatever. Especially since when I gain weight I look very Asian and I’ve seem what happens then; flat out racism, even from Asian women. I still remember when I was around 20, some Asian woman in the airport looked at me and scowled. I looked too Asian for her. Yesterday, I was eating dinner in a restaurant, and this old Chinese man was bragging about how awesome France and white people are (literally), then he goes up to pee, and takes one look at me and does the usual “oh, look a foreigner – wait, his cheekbones are too high and he looks too Asian, nope.”
This is what most Wasians are born to be. Their parents, their Asian families, deliberately sought out a white person and made a conscientious choice to bring that child into the world not as a full Asian, but specifically as a half white person. And the child knows it. They know that being full Asian is so bad and so subjected to open discrimination even from other Asians that even though Wasians love to claim they’re proud of being Asian, none of them, I repeat, none of them, would want to trade places with a full Asian.
I remember years ago I used to argue with this “happy hapa” online, and he used to say he was fine and whatever, and ten years later when I see his posting history it’s just non-stop China hate, talking about how he loves Barbour and craft beer, and he’s a 35 year old man and still single. This the same guy that when I found his Facebook, some white girl with a white boyfriend called him Kim Jung Il to his face and all he could do was reply with a snappy quip.
So, if you want to know what’s going on with the Wasians. It’s just that. All of the, 100% of them, are legitimately proud to be half white, rather than being full Asian. And that’s barely a stone’s throw from going all the way and wanting to be white, like my brother is.
I just want to say, I’m genuinely, truly sorry to all the people who can only sit back and watch this unfold. I think back to all the black and Indian women I rejected in the past trying to be a good looking Wasian Christian boy raised by my racist white dad and my hateful Asian mom who hated how “uncivilized” Asians and other minorities were. I truly am. In the event someone reads this, I truly just want to say – sorry.
We all know there’s a subset of Asians who make it their life’s goal to “assimilate” with white people, producing mixed race kids. They swear up and down that mixed race kids are successful / hot, but in the real world, most of us are considered Asian, and on top of that, the white parent usually isn’t that special lookswise, so we wind up with genes that would otherwise not have reproduced, reproducing with the help of an Asian woman whose only goal was to assimilate at all costs.
Before anyone says “this guy is good looking,” or “I know good looking Wasians,” or whatever, that’s not how it works. I’m not even talking about just pure physical attraction now, let me talk about love.
In the real world, yes, the real world, ACTUAL good looking guys have it easier. I know this because I had girls telling me I was fine consistently between like 10 till now. And the only reason I harp on this point is because my mom tried to kill me, I’m guessing because being the crazy feminist she was, I represented Asian male sexuality or something, even as a kid. And Asian American women I’ve met, have gone out of their way, after taking one look at my Asian bone structure, and gone out of their way to harass and insult me.
I currently live in Asia; as I said, I probably wound up back here due to disillusionment with the western lie, which probably was weighted by having a bunch of women try to cheat on their boyfriends with me. I even had a half-Korean woman try to cheat on her rich white boyfriend with me, against her mother’s wishes.
I’m gonna say something really, truly terrible to hear, and ironically the only people who will agree with me, are women, though they won’t admit it. In my time in Asia, I’ve personally SEEN women who are deeply in love with their Chinese men, even if these guys are broke or completely losers, and it’s because these guys are pretty. As I said, even when I was broke and suffering extreme mental strain from racial bullying, I had random American women telling me they were in love with me and not even once did I ever get the impression it was because of anything other than my bone structure. A few weeks ago I had some random Chinese lady come up to me and start talking to my face about how pretty I was; my woman actually joked that her husband had probably passed and she was just depressed. I have a family uncle whose wife was a huge business-chain owner and he was a loser and she basically chased him and offered him a bunch of money to marry her based on him being “so handsome.” Hilariously, my woman’s grandmother often mistakes us for one another because we look similar. I also have a family friend who is in tears every time she comes around talking about her husband who passed away 20 years ago. Compare this to three Asian women in my family admitting to me in separate occasions they never loved their white husbands.
As I said, being attractive isn’t like some subjective thing. In Chinese culture all people do is talk about looks when they’re not talking about family or money. When some woman marries a western incel, the son will be incel, because that’s how it works. You can’t weasle your way out of being chopped, because in the real world I never had to lift a finger being attractive to the opposite gender simply because I was born with cheekbones that my mother thought reminded her of her cheating Asian dad or something. If you’re born chopped, that’s it. It’s a wrap as a man, and the chances of a woman genuinely wanting you for anything other than money is 0%. Not 1%. 0%. And she’s gonna be perpetually miserable and angry because she’s got to be around a guy whose face she can’t stand.
But now we have a bunch of half Asian incels who AREN’T hot, because if they WERE hot, they would know they were by the time they were like 11. My brother has never had a woman once tell him she thought he was fine, for example. Edit: that’s wrong, he’s had a black woman say he’s fine but he’s a racist so let’s just write that one off.
So we have LITERAL half-Asian incels born from white losers / self-hating Asian moms, or even self hating Asian dads and whatever white woman they managed to throw money at. What does that lead to, objectively?
A post-color world where we all koombaya and hold hands and say race is over?
No, because we have literal Wasian meetups that exclude anyone who isn’t half white, on both coasts. Entire movements dedicated to the children of self hating Asian people who made it their life goal to assimilate to Asianness.
And know half Asians well, 100% of every half Asian woman I’ve ever met in my life, regardless if the dad or mom was Asian, wound up with a white dude. And a huge chunk of the half Asian men I’ve met were some combination of racist, gay, incel, weird, autistic, or plain unbearable to deal with due to their inherited self hatred. And self hatred merely comes from a place of them realizing deep down that women won’t ever love them because of their faces.
So what’s the answer to all this?
I really don’t know. That’s probably why they’re pushing the power bottom Wasian guy from Heated Rivalry. Even Obama said in his letters that he fantasized about banging dudes because it made life easier than the insanity we all face. Maybe that’s the solution, which is why they’re pushing it so hard. How else are we supposed to fix half Asian guys who are so chopped they go a lifetime without a single woman ever expressing attraction? I mean the buck stopped at their dads.
People used to criticize me for saying that “only a Sith believes in absolutes,” but in reality it may be my Chinese brain interpreting reality at face value, which ironically is probably why so many people hate Chinese people.
The Wasian situation is sad, because Asian women, like many women in the west, pick white men simply “because.” I guess, because it will make their lives easier.
The problem with this is that biracials rarely look white and don’t benefit from this. On top of that, like in my experience, I’ve had Asian women with white partners flat out insult and attack me for no reason for the crime of looking too Asian in their vicinity. So naturally, since reality exists in a vacuum, many other half-Asian men go through this.
This might be why so many half-Asian guys are gay, because being exposed to the insane nihilism of an Asian mom who marries a white man purely for money / social status, will affect the male offspring’s brain to the point that he’s incapable of visualizing a woman as actually desiring or loving a man.
That’s not to say that all Wasians are gay, but I see a lot of them straight up hating their Asian moms or Asian women in general, likely out of utter hatred of how “unloving” their Asian moms were. Based on what I’ve seen, a lot of Wasian men in the real world don’t do very well with women unless they’re living off of their inheritances.
On top of this, there’s genetic factors where undesirable white men who are rejected by white women, having kids with self hating Asian women, leading to undesirable sons, who carry those looks, and based on objective reality – I’ve had non-Asian women and Asian women chase me purely for my looks – so it’s not like half-Asian men who are physically unattractive can escape it.
There are cases where Asian women start out chasing Asian guys but get cheated on because even I can admit that good looking Asian and black men are probably on another level when it comes to attracting women, which creates crazy feminists like my mom who hated all Asian men because we resembled the potential ability to “play around” and “cheat.”
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