Self hating Asians are the most obsessed with having mixed babies, like Arthur Liu.
And the only reason these Asians are self hating is because they’re physically ugly or were treated poorly by other Asians (probably due to their looks), but in the real world, people (especially Asians) make value judgements based on objective facial attractiveness. Case in point, this guy has no facial harmony, no cheekbones, nothing. I don’t think people realize how vicious life is, especially towards chopped men I live in China and see 10,000 happy couples a day where the woman is clearly happy with the man’s face, since in China people can’t shut up about good looking men and women.
As a result, most mixed race Asians are unattractive, and no, it’s not subjective, because I was told I was hot by girls when I was like 11, by everyone except – surprise, surprise, Asian women. And guess what? My crazy feminist Asian mom hated that about me. I guess she preferred I was born a girl, or chopped and gay, because of her deep seated issues with the behavior of hot Asian guys.
Which is really bad, because in 2026 the only people (guys especially) who women like are all hot guys (look at how Kpop guys are treated versus other men), while every other guy has a long and hard life throwing money at women who don’t love them; my mom and her sisters all admitted they never loved their white husbands.
Arthur Liu (Alysia Liu’s dad) wanted female babies, and had 6 with an IVF white female donor, probably because he knew his sons would inherit his looks and have a hard time. Even my ultra -feminist mom told me she wanted daughters, not sons, but parented my brother and I differently, coddling him, while hating me, because I guess she noticed white / black girls liked my Asian bone structure (they’ve literally told me this to my face, the Kpop craze confirmed it).
If you’re not “hot” as a man in life, women can never really truly love you, so a lot of half-Asian guys wind up racist, right-wing, into extreme behaviors, or gay, or all of the above.
Just so people know, I don’t hate or care much about LGBT people, I think they should be protected, granted every right and celebrated as much as possible, but I only push this because I have a vendetta against white worshipping Asians who think that their children will naturally become super human alpha males who will rule the world, when in fact, the world doesn’t work like that. You know how the world really operates? On very unfair superficial principles.
The other day at the mall in China, within 5 minutes I saw this extremely tired looking unattractive bearded white guy with a Chinese woman who clearly didn’t care about him, and then this half Asian femboy walking around all alone.
Here’s the HARSH reality of life and about the half-Asian thing.
I’m half Asian but pass as full, got bullied for it my whole life even by self hating Asian women. Noticed a lot of half Asian guys are gay, right wing, weird, or all of the above. Makes sense. Life is very hard, a lot of Asian women marry unattractive weird white men for the money, my mom and aunts all admitted they never loved their white husbands, because they’re unattractive (even to non-Asian women), obviously, but provide utility, and are easy to control, unlike Asian men.
Half Asian sons come out carrying their dads genes, get ignored by women their whole lives, or used by women, and their moms just abuse their dads and formed a relationship entirely on utility, so the sons have a completely warped perspective on heterosexual love, probably not even believing a woman can love a man, not that it would matter, because women aren’t even attracted to them anyways especially in the western world where women (the same women that rejected our dads) just hate every guy who isn’t hot.
As an Asian looking guy, I’ve had non-Asian women chase me down and ask me to sleep with them, some of them have boyfriends, even had half Asian women try this with their half-Asian or white boyfriends who had high paying jobs. (My feminist mom noticed this about me early and absolutely hated me for it).
These guys were all rich, these women straight up told me they were using them for money. These guys have no idea and even if they did they couldn’t do anything cause they’re not hot enough to be able to do anything. So a lot of these guys just date men because they’re easier and less demanding than women.
That’s where all those memes come from like “she cheated so you go find out what the hype was about.” Women are picky, you either have to be hot or be really rich and even then they don’t want these guys. So half-Asian sons come out with no women wanting them and trust me, if you’re a hot guy women will just tell you your whole life from your teenaged years until you’re old.
I was like 11 when girls were calling me hot, finding my little shitty websites and leaving comments about how hot I wa, first time I got catcalled was waiting for the bus when I was like 12 or 13 by a group of girls, and these same girls were ignoring every other guy in my class I’m sure most hot Asian guys can confirm this is fact.
Sorry, life is really hard and unfair like that. Asian women basically sell out their sons’ happiness for money. It is what it is.
So this isn’t my usual post where I’m like, ohm there’s a huge difference between WMAF and AMWF hapas.
I mean there probably is but recently I’ve seen it’s hit or miss, but I posted this video on Twitter to merely point out that the ugly fat troll looking guy was just flat out being racist in the name of “comedy” and lacks the wherewithal and self awareness to look at what he’s saying in the vein of basically, uh, the most famous Half Asian or all time, Elliot Rodger, who killed a bunch of Asian guys.
Some of my readers pointed out that there was a stark difference in their attractiveness and I was like, yeah, wow, you’re actually right.
Reality is that the short guy is apparently a sexpat in Thailand, and his mother is Thai, and you can basically see the ugly white passport bro dad on him, since, as we know, women do care about looks. So here is this ugly mixed race self declared ‘Wasian’ writing out the word ‘Wasian’ in racist little Asian font, making fun of a bored looking, uncomfortable, decently-attractive son of an Asian man. You can’t really make that up.
I was more concentrated on what a disgusting, lazy, low effort racist he was, but just looking at him you can tell his dad cheated evolution, he’s stuck looking like that so all he really knows is being toxic to cope.
10 years ago on /r/hapas it was theorized that a lot of biracial Asian guys were gay, and I sort of just ignored them because I believed that it was probably genetic because I did believe that a lot of gay men were chasing Asian women. Foolishly, I believed that gay guys would use Asian women because the Asian woman wouldn’t mind an asexual guy who wouldn’t touch her, because she had bad experiences with Asian men’s sexuality.
Thinking back to my experiences with Asian American women, I now can understand that; because I was chased hard by non-Asian women while deep down wanting an Asian woman, and the Asian women I was interested in were almost universally hostile to me in a very emasculating way, to the point that I do believe that Asian women have a problem with Asian male sexuality. I used to have these extremely fine women ask me out and take me to bars and dinner and buy me drinks and the whole time I was thinking that I wished she was Asian. My guess now, 20 years later, is that this may have been my subconscious urging me to make the right genetic decision. Funnily enough, I actually only found some black girls on par with Asian girls lookswise.
I sort of balked at this subject of gay Wasians but was interested in it because my father was obsessed with gay men to an insane degree which I found weird because I viewed gay guys as a non-threat.
After moving to China however I noticed that gays weren’t really prevalent until recently; most couples I see are lesbian couples, and only in the last 3 or 4 years have I been seeing more gay guys, and there seems to be a really strong taint of misogyny in Chinese gays. Last night in a very bougie Western market I saw this Chinese guy and a white guy walk in, and a Chinese woman working there greeted him, and he yelled at her not to talk to him. My immediate thought was, this guy absolutely hates Chinese women, and probably because they view Chinese women as golddiggers.
So my guess is, that gay white men who go for Asian women, are just incels who have given up on the idea of a genuine, non-transactional relationship with a white woman, and Asian women are looking for a non-sexual white guy with money who is incapable of cheating. A true match made in hell. A lot of these white guys get with Asian women as a last ditch on a woman, but wind up with her not finding him attractive, so he just either becomes violent or goes all the way into men.
It’s interesting because looking back over 11 years at the old posts on /r/hapas, there were posts like this that I missed completely. I thought they were funny and ignored them just reading them in passing but this is actually crazy to realize. I do realize how lucky I was to have had women chase me even when I was broke, and I never got the impression it was about anything other than my appearance. So my running theory now is that many Wasian men are gay because they inherit physical unattractiveness from their white fathers and realize fairly early that their shot at being “attractive” is either pay heavily for it, or, never have a woman truly desire them.
I mean, this really scares me to my core. The first time I learned I was cute to girls was like 10, but now I think it starts for some guys even younger. Here’s a video of a Blasian girl with an Asian dad (she identifies as Asian, btw, which is hilarious compared to Wasians) who had a crush on an Asian guy at 5 years old and went on to marry him after chasing him at 17. And she’s pretty clear that it was about looks. The fact that I can relate to that is scary, because it now dawns on me that maybe this played a part in my mom’s hatred of me – representing Asian male sexuality and attractiveness.
I mean, think about it this way; we’re 60 years deep into the sexual revolution and female choice; at this point the whole idea of “not needing a man for money” is embedded in society and basically in the western world, your only real shot as a man at finding a woman who actually loves you, let alone tolerates you, is to be physically hot, which is decided at like 5 years old (even according to this Blasian woman). What the hell are the chopped sons of white losers and Asian asexual women supposed to do?
To think that there are a lot of guys out there that are genuinely invisible to women really terrifies me and deep down that’s why I’m so obsessed with this subject.
Also, I mean this with the utmost intention and sincerity: I am not promoting hatred against LGBT or gay people. I’m just interested in this subject, but in a different way than my father was, who HATED gay guys; but I may even think now that my dad was obsessed with this subject because he understood it as a “way out,” as well.
I’m 40 next month, and if I had to sum up everything I’ve learned in my life, it’s that life is not fair and you’ll never win by complaining about evil and wrong in this world (such as Wasians having Wasian only meetups), because most people just take what they’re given, and they run with it.
Look at this objectively; I’ve seen entire lives come and go. I’ve seen certain friends of mine go through life not having a single woman ever express interest in them, while I’ve had women call me hot consistently my entire life.
For a guy like the guy in the video – what is he supposed to do? He has a white dad and a self hating Asian mom who got together because no woman wanted his father and his mother hated the way she looked; now he’s stuck like this, forever. What the hell is he supposed to do? He’s going to cling to being half white as long and as hard as he can because it’s his only real shot of feeling good about himself when he has parents that wouldn’t be together were it not for their races.
To these lunatics, it’s perfectly fine to brag about being half white, and you can see on their little threads how they talk about shit like “it’s okay for other ethnic minorities to have meetups, but Wasians can’t?” It’s just thinly veiled alt right white supremacist rhetoric in a half Asian package, which makes sense because so many white racists marry Asians.
It’s funny because in China, it’s looked down on to mix with whites, not because of racism, but more so because of lookism. The kid will have a harder time in life if he’s ugly, especially the boys. My self hating uncle who worships education and the west said that in passing to someone else at dinner, because he knew he was ugly. So all these ugly Asians had kids with ugly white people and now they have little ugly meetups bragging about their insecurities, while IRL all, and I mean ALL the half Asian women I’ve known have been with white guys and every single half-Asian I’ve met barring 1 or 2, came off as extremely try hard, insecure incels.
Here’s another image I found relevant to this post. Look at how that girl can’t even bring herself to look at the dude. The whole Wasian thing is his coping mechanism. When I was his age I had 4 different black girls and 1 white girl ask me to prom, and I rejected all of them cause I wanted a Chinese girl in my class. I never once got the impression that it was about anything other than looks. Not ONCE in my entire life did I ever get the impression that women liked me because I was mixed, if anything it was because I was Asian.
Lastly, here’s one of my favorite takedowns of Wasian arrogance and narcissism, from none other than black women on LipStickAlley.
We all know there’s a subset of Asians who make it their life’s goal to “assimilate” with white people, producing mixed race kids. They swear up and down that mixed race kids are successful / hot, but in the real world, most of us are considered Asian, and on top of that, the white parent usually isn’t that special lookswise, so we wind up with genes that would otherwise not have reproduced, reproducing with the help of an Asian woman whose only goal was to assimilate at all costs.
Before anyone says “this guy is good looking,” or “I know good looking Wasians,” or whatever, that’s not how it works. I’m not even talking about just pure physical attraction now, let me talk about love.
In the real world, yes, the real world, ACTUAL good looking guys have it easier. I know this because I had girls telling me I was fine consistently between like 10 till now. And the only reason I harp on this point is because my mom tried to kill me, I’m guessing because being the crazy feminist she was, I represented Asian male sexuality or something, even as a kid. And Asian American women I’ve met, have gone out of their way, after taking one look at my Asian bone structure, and gone out of their way to harass and insult me.
I currently live in Asia; as I said, I probably wound up back here due to disillusionment with the western lie, which probably was weighted by having a bunch of women try to cheat on their boyfriends with me. I even had a half-Korean woman try to cheat on her rich white boyfriend with me, against her mother’s wishes.
I’m gonna say something really, truly terrible to hear, and ironically the only people who will agree with me, are women, though they won’t admit it. In my time in Asia, I’ve personally SEEN women who are deeply in love with their Chinese men, even if these guys are broke or completely losers, and it’s because these guys are pretty. As I said, even when I was broke and suffering extreme mental strain from racial bullying, I had random American women telling me they were in love with me and not even once did I ever get the impression it was because of anything other than my bone structure. A few weeks ago I had some random Chinese lady come up to me and start talking to my face about how pretty I was; my woman actually joked that her husband had probably passed and she was just depressed. I have a family uncle whose wife was a huge business-chain owner and he was a loser and she basically chased him and offered him a bunch of money to marry her based on him being “so handsome.” Hilariously, my woman’s grandmother often mistakes us for one another because we look similar. I also have a family friend who is in tears every time she comes around talking about her husband who passed away 20 years ago. Compare this to three Asian women in my family admitting to me in separate occasions they never loved their white husbands.
As I said, being attractive isn’t like some subjective thing. In Chinese culture all people do is talk about looks when they’re not talking about family or money. When some woman marries a western incel, the son will be incel, because that’s how it works. You can’t weasle your way out of being chopped, because in the real world I never had to lift a finger being attractive to the opposite gender simply because I was born with cheekbones that my mother thought reminded her of her cheating Asian dad or something. If you’re born chopped, that’s it. It’s a wrap as a man, and the chances of a woman genuinely wanting you for anything other than money is 0%. Not 1%. 0%. And she’s gonna be perpetually miserable and angry because she’s got to be around a guy whose face she can’t stand.
But now we have a bunch of half Asian incels who AREN’T hot, because if they WERE hot, they would know they were by the time they were like 11. My brother has never had a woman once tell him she thought he was fine, for example. Edit: that’s wrong, he’s had a black woman say he’s fine but he’s a racist so let’s just write that one off.
So we have LITERAL half-Asian incels born from white losers / self-hating Asian moms, or even self hating Asian dads and whatever white woman they managed to throw money at. What does that lead to, objectively?
A post-color world where we all koombaya and hold hands and say race is over?
No, because we have literal Wasian meetups that exclude anyone who isn’t half white, on both coasts. Entire movements dedicated to the children of self hating Asian people who made it their life goal to assimilate to Asianness.
And know half Asians well, 100% of every half Asian woman I’ve ever met in my life, regardless if the dad or mom was Asian, wound up with a white dude. And a huge chunk of the half Asian men I’ve met were some combination of racist, gay, incel, weird, autistic, or plain unbearable to deal with due to their inherited self hatred. And self hatred merely comes from a place of them realizing deep down that women won’t ever love them because of their faces.
So what’s the answer to all this?
I really don’t know. That’s probably why they’re pushing the power bottom Wasian guy from Heated Rivalry. Even Obama said in his letters that he fantasized about banging dudes because it made life easier than the insanity we all face. Maybe that’s the solution, which is why they’re pushing it so hard. How else are we supposed to fix half Asian guys who are so chopped they go a lifetime without a single woman ever expressing attraction? I mean the buck stopped at their dads.
Another day, another insecure son of an Asian woman and her white man posts on Reddit. There’s dozens of these posts a day. IRL, I see a lot of half Asians and they always have that same 1000 yard incel stare on their faces.
Not a mystery why: Asian women are seeking integration into whiteness and the sons are not white, so get confused, especially since their dads are generally the type of weirdo guys who white women rejected for their looks, so the sons have to carry the bad genes, plus their moms self hatred, with zero explanation or rationale, and are thrust into the world trying to just figure it out. So many of them go on this weird Wasian arc, desperately asking the world “do I look Asian or white?”
“Am I a superior, master race Wasian, mom? I must be, because my self hating Asian parent told me I’m special for being half Asian!”
Then reality hits and the world just sees some mid guy and the half-Asian goes from having a massive overblown ego about being half-white, to just being another incel chud with an obsession with being a real American man with all his guns and beards and military obsession.
It’s funny cause growing up, as I said, my mom seemed to hate me and I couldn’t figure out why, but as I get older I look back at old photos of myself where I had, at a younger age, convinced myself I looked more ambiguous or even white, and I look like 75% Asian, and now I realize my mom hated me cause I resembled her cheating dad or something. She used to go on these insane rambles about Pol Pot and communism and how great America and white people were, and now I realize that to her with my Asian bone structure I resembled all those cheating, communist Asian men she hated. Makes sense cause I had fine black / white women chasing me around looking to hook up and she was deep into this insane brand of ultra Christianity and feminism and desperately tried to turn my Wasian brother into her personal eunuch pet project.
I hate to be the one to be a doomer, but honestly with as obsessed Wasians are with their “master race status,” it’s actually completely spoken out of insecurity. Let’s be real about it: if your parents genes are chopped you’re gonna be chopped, and Wasians are so convinced they have amazing genes when in the real world, women look at hot guys, even Asian guys, and make split second decisions.
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