I’ve had multiple Asian women in my family admit to me at several different points that they never loved their white husbands, maybe because they saw how I was struggling with my ethnicity, but I think also women tend to open up to me more because I inherited pretty Asian male features so I’m fully aware of women’s true nature. The thing is, women reading this KNOW I’m telling the truth. Even my mom would literally bully my dad WHILE HE WAS EATING to the point he covered his face with his hand during dinner.
But most white guys can’t deal with it and they marry some asexual, man-hating Asian golddigger that is only with them for the money, but Asian women can just have zero filter so it will slip out that she says something to his face like “I never loved you,” or “the kids aren’t yours,” or something like that.
That’s why there are SO MANY cases of Asian women getting murdered by their white man, and the kids sometimes get smoked too, maybe cause of infidelity. Asian women are just so notoriously pragmatic about life that marrying some ugly incel racist white guy is just seen as the “thing to do,” love be damned.
That’s why so many half Asian guys are gay. Being told from day one that “race doesn’t matter” but your mom literally married a white guy ONLY for the money or ONLY because he’s white, must be so confusing. Imagine having it shoved in your face since day one that women don’t actually love, let alone like men; it’s probably so cataclysmic for hapa males, and many swear off the idea of legitimate, heterosexual love completely.
On top of that, life is extremely hard. In 2026 to get a woman you basically have to be extremely rich or extremely pretty, which is why so many rich white guys want Asian women; because even the money can’t save them from women’s facial pickiness. So now the sons are born with their white dad’s narrow ugly faces just because their Asian moms picked an ugly dude for the money. And the sons are, for lack of a better word, completely fucked and wind up just throwing money at white women and attending little stupid Wasian parties.
NVIDIA CEO Jensen Huang’s half-Asian daughter is with a white guy while his son is still single. This is the same guy who “inspires” all the chopped Asian men in the west to become billionaires and throw money at white women.
I find that funny because it’s the pattern I’ve seen my whole life, half Asian girls all wound up with white guys in a world that is 10% white, and half Asian guys are all single into late adulthood, I’ve seen this at my college 20 years ago and today. This is regardless if their dads or moms are Asian.
What’s even funnier to me is that how Wasian men claim they’re all so good looking and rich and even with all that money have even lower marital rates than full Asian men. The more I actually sit down and talk to Wasian guys, the more I realize how hard so many of them openly cope with the “we do fine, we have money!” hocus-pocus, my guess because their Asian parent told them this to insulate them from the sexual revolution that favors extremely hot men, and then white men next.
The worst part about it is that you’re in general not supposed to talk about any of this because of this conditioning that ‘love is love,’ (so long as it’s with a white person), and that it’s just mere coincidence that half-Asian women, regardless of their dads or moms are Asian, all wind up with white men.
In this case I even give WMAF daughters some brownie-points over AMWF daughters, because at very least WMAF daughters will hook up with an Asian or half-Asian guy before marrying a white guy, but my guess is that AMWF daughters won’t even bother and just beeline to eradicating the Asian genes in their blood.
Life is really, really hard for men and being hot as a man is basically the only real way to immunize yourself from all of this. And yet so many Asians are hellbent on getting with mid white people can then creating sons whose only real shot at “love” is to throw money at is. That’s probably the scariest part of it for me. I’ve had multiple women in my family openly brag to me about how they never loved their husbands, then at the same time I’ve had random women tell me they love me and buy me stuff and 100% of the time I got the impression it was cause I’m pretty as a male, and yes, this is because of my Asian looks. So it alarms me that there are so many self-hating Asians willing to toss that all away just for… whatever.
I’m turning 40 this month and before someone calls me an unc, my life went by in a flash. I spent the last 20 years trying to piece together what happened to my brother and I and what I’ve learned is that neither one of us had any free will.
In China, I’ve noticed there are zero autistic kids. Like maybe there are but you just don’t see them that much. Statistically they exist, but I’ve never seen one personally. I have seen autistic mixed kids though in China, which is weird, and I know full Asian American autistic kids exist (Andrew Yang’s son).
What that probably means is that autism is Mother Nature counteracting men who should not have reproduced without the help of money / status / citizenship, since nature loathes mistakes. There are theories it’s caused by abusive mothers but women will always just become abusive when they wind up with a man that they don’t find hot (which is like 90% of women).
It’s so weird that Chinese diaspora ran away from the motherland because of “le evil communists” yet get wiped out in 1 to 2 generations as their daughters marry white autists or their sons are autistic and socially-illiterate due to severe Tiger Mothering. And then they have the balls to say “CCP bad” and yet when you go to China you see happy people getting by everywhere, which is probably why they didn’t want their kids to go back to China in the first place, because then they’d realize diaspora aren’t normal Chinese people. They acted like China was some depopulated Holocaust of starving people when it’s like 1.5 billion people doing alright.
I realize I probably wound up back here by just pure natural selection / lack of free will. I have an ABC friend who has a friend who took the virginities of 3 or 4 Asian girls in his friend group and went back to HK not even speaking Canto and just living off of women. That’s what I’m talking about. Living in the west has no purpose to an Asian person unless they’re there for money to cope with being ugly. Again, harping on this kind of thing, I learned I was pretty to girls in childhood, whereas my brother has never once had a woman tell him to his face he’s attractive. And he’s the most anti-communist, MAGA glazer imaginable. That’s not a coincidence.
Some half Asian guy replied to my post about how many half Asians are a product of self hatred, coming in with the usual “we’re not all like that.”
15 second look at his profile reveals the standard Half-Asian male fare.
I call him out on it, and he doubles down on how he’s normal. I mean, what the hell else are these guys supposed to do? You only get one shot at life, so if someone calls you out, of course you’re going to deny reality. Some racist sexpat has a child with an Asian golddigger, or worse, a legitimate self-hater; what are the sons supposed to do? Of course they’re going to be like this, because that’s how they were raised; an entire childhood, well into adulthood, being subjected to the whims and dynamics of his parents.
My brother is a 43 year old virgin who loves Trump, worships money, and legitimately hates black people, and it’s because: A), he was around my father his entire life, and B) because his belief sets make him feel less insecure about himself being a 43 year old virgin that no woman ever truly desired.
My quest continues for half Asians who aren’t:
A) Extremely and proudly racist / Eurocentric / white supremacist
B) Overtly insecure / obsessed with their masculinity (especially over full Asians)
C) Obsessed with money and throwing it at women to generate interest they never got for free
D) Gay (see C)
Let’s be honest for a second, life is very hard, I get it. A lot of half Asians are born to these anti-feminist right wing white men and self hating Asian women, and you’re basically born like that as a Wasian, especially a male. You have no choice in how the world perceives you. By default a lot of them are extremely insecure about being Asian and desperately want to be white, on top of the fact that most of us have less than stellar dads in terms of looks. I get it; it’s hard. As I said, you’ll know you’re cute to girls at like, 5 years old. What are these guys supposed to do OTHER than overcompensate with racism and money?
I’m 40 next month, and if I had to sum up everything I’ve learned in my life, it’s that life is not fair and you’ll never win by complaining about evil and wrong in this world (such as Wasians having Wasian only meetups), because most people just take what they’re given, and they run with it.
Look at this objectively; I’ve seen entire lives come and go. I’ve seen certain friends of mine go through life not having a single woman ever express interest in them, while I’ve had women call me hot consistently my entire life.
For a guy like the guy in the video – what is he supposed to do? He has a white dad and a self hating Asian mom who got together because no woman wanted his father and his mother hated the way she looked; now he’s stuck like this, forever. What the hell is he supposed to do? He’s going to cling to being half white as long and as hard as he can because it’s his only real shot of feeling good about himself when he has parents that wouldn’t be together were it not for their races.
To these lunatics, it’s perfectly fine to brag about being half white, and you can see on their little threads how they talk about shit like “it’s okay for other ethnic minorities to have meetups, but Wasians can’t?” It’s just thinly veiled alt right white supremacist rhetoric in a half Asian package, which makes sense because so many white racists marry Asians.
It’s funny because in China, it’s looked down on to mix with whites, not because of racism, but more so because of lookism. The kid will have a harder time in life if he’s ugly, especially the boys. My self hating uncle who worships education and the west said that in passing to someone else at dinner, because he knew he was ugly. So all these ugly Asians had kids with ugly white people and now they have little ugly meetups bragging about their insecurities, while IRL all, and I mean ALL the half Asian women I’ve known have been with white guys and every single half-Asian I’ve met barring 1 or 2, came off as extremely try hard, insecure incels.
Here’s another image I found relevant to this post. Look at how that girl can’t even bring herself to look at the dude. The whole Wasian thing is his coping mechanism. When I was his age I had 4 different black girls and 1 white girl ask me to prom, and I rejected all of them cause I wanted a Chinese girl in my class. I never once got the impression that it was about anything other than looks. Not ONCE in my entire life did I ever get the impression that women liked me because I was mixed, if anything it was because I was Asian.
Lastly, here’s one of my favorite takedowns of Wasian arrogance and narcissism, from none other than black women on LipStickAlley.
A lot of people have been talking about the Wasian only gatherings in NY and LA. No other mixed races allowed, only half white people. Very deliberate choice, too. Now the Wasians are talking about how they are the new “Khazakh lobby.”
If the pure narcissism of that doesn’t make you cringe, then look at their excuses. “We exist, we deserve the right to be proud of our white side as well as our Asian side!” Or more commonly, I’ve seen them go “criticizing our right to be proud to be half white is racist!”
This is in 2026, years after we were promised race didn’t exist but every single interracial couple you see involves a white guy + Asian woman.
Why are Wasians like this? Well, I almost went down that path, and due to my insecurity over being part Asian, I too liked to cling to these ridiculous beauty myths and whatever. Especially since when I gain weight I look very Asian and I’ve seem what happens then; flat out racism, even from Asian women. I still remember when I was around 20, some Asian woman in the airport looked at me and scowled. I looked too Asian for her. Yesterday, I was eating dinner in a restaurant, and this old Chinese man was bragging about how awesome France and white people are (literally), then he goes up to pee, and takes one look at me and does the usual “oh, look a foreigner – wait, his cheekbones are too high and he looks too Asian, nope.”
This is what most Wasians are born to be. Their parents, their Asian families, deliberately sought out a white person and made a conscientious choice to bring that child into the world not as a full Asian, but specifically as a half white person. And the child knows it. They know that being full Asian is so bad and so subjected to open discrimination even from other Asians that even though Wasians love to claim they’re proud of being Asian, none of them, I repeat, none of them, would want to trade places with a full Asian.
I remember years ago I used to argue with this “happy hapa” online, and he used to say he was fine and whatever, and ten years later when I see his posting history it’s just non-stop China hate, talking about how he loves Barbour and craft beer, and he’s a 35 year old man and still single. This the same guy that when I found his Facebook, some white girl with a white boyfriend called him Kim Jung Il to his face and all he could do was reply with a snappy quip.
So, if you want to know what’s going on with the Wasians. It’s just that. All of the, 100% of them, are legitimately proud to be half white, rather than being full Asian. And that’s barely a stone’s throw from going all the way and wanting to be white, like my brother is.
I just want to say, I’m genuinely, truly sorry to all the people who can only sit back and watch this unfold. I think back to all the black and Indian women I rejected in the past trying to be a good looking Wasian Christian boy raised by my racist white dad and my hateful Asian mom who hated how “uncivilized” Asians and other minorities were. I truly am. In the event someone reads this, I truly just want to say – sorry.
We all know there’s a subset of Asians who make it their life’s goal to “assimilate” with white people, producing mixed race kids. They swear up and down that mixed race kids are successful / hot, but in the real world, most of us are considered Asian, and on top of that, the white parent usually isn’t that special lookswise, so we wind up with genes that would otherwise not have reproduced, reproducing with the help of an Asian woman whose only goal was to assimilate at all costs.
Before anyone says “this guy is good looking,” or “I know good looking Wasians,” or whatever, that’s not how it works. I’m not even talking about just pure physical attraction now, let me talk about love.
In the real world, yes, the real world, ACTUAL good looking guys have it easier. I know this because I had girls telling me I was fine consistently between like 10 till now. And the only reason I harp on this point is because my mom tried to kill me, I’m guessing because being the crazy feminist she was, I represented Asian male sexuality or something, even as a kid. And Asian American women I’ve met, have gone out of their way, after taking one look at my Asian bone structure, and gone out of their way to harass and insult me.
I currently live in Asia; as I said, I probably wound up back here due to disillusionment with the western lie, which probably was weighted by having a bunch of women try to cheat on their boyfriends with me. I even had a half-Korean woman try to cheat on her rich white boyfriend with me, against her mother’s wishes.
I’m gonna say something really, truly terrible to hear, and ironically the only people who will agree with me, are women, though they won’t admit it. In my time in Asia, I’ve personally SEEN women who are deeply in love with their Chinese men, even if these guys are broke or completely losers, and it’s because these guys are pretty. As I said, even when I was broke and suffering extreme mental strain from racial bullying, I had random American women telling me they were in love with me and not even once did I ever get the impression it was because of anything other than my bone structure. A few weeks ago I had some random Chinese lady come up to me and start talking to my face about how pretty I was; my woman actually joked that her husband had probably passed and she was just depressed. I have a family uncle whose wife was a huge business-chain owner and he was a loser and she basically chased him and offered him a bunch of money to marry her based on him being “so handsome.” Hilariously, my woman’s grandmother often mistakes us for one another because we look similar. I also have a family friend who is in tears every time she comes around talking about her husband who passed away 20 years ago. Compare this to three Asian women in my family admitting to me in separate occasions they never loved their white husbands.
As I said, being attractive isn’t like some subjective thing. In Chinese culture all people do is talk about looks when they’re not talking about family or money. When some woman marries a western incel, the son will be incel, because that’s how it works. You can’t weasle your way out of being chopped, because in the real world I never had to lift a finger being attractive to the opposite gender simply because I was born with cheekbones that my mother thought reminded her of her cheating Asian dad or something. If you’re born chopped, that’s it. It’s a wrap as a man, and the chances of a woman genuinely wanting you for anything other than money is 0%. Not 1%. 0%. And she’s gonna be perpetually miserable and angry because she’s got to be around a guy whose face she can’t stand.
But now we have a bunch of half Asian incels who AREN’T hot, because if they WERE hot, they would know they were by the time they were like 11. My brother has never had a woman once tell him she thought he was fine, for example. Edit: that’s wrong, he’s had a black woman say he’s fine but he’s a racist so let’s just write that one off.
So we have LITERAL half-Asian incels born from white losers / self-hating Asian moms, or even self hating Asian dads and whatever white woman they managed to throw money at. What does that lead to, objectively?
A post-color world where we all koombaya and hold hands and say race is over?
No, because we have literal Wasian meetups that exclude anyone who isn’t half white, on both coasts. Entire movements dedicated to the children of self hating Asian people who made it their life goal to assimilate to Asianness.
And know half Asians well, 100% of every half Asian woman I’ve ever met in my life, regardless if the dad or mom was Asian, wound up with a white dude. And a huge chunk of the half Asian men I’ve met were some combination of racist, gay, incel, weird, autistic, or plain unbearable to deal with due to their inherited self hatred. And self hatred merely comes from a place of them realizing deep down that women won’t ever love them because of their faces.
So what’s the answer to all this?
I really don’t know. That’s probably why they’re pushing the power bottom Wasian guy from Heated Rivalry. Even Obama said in his letters that he fantasized about banging dudes because it made life easier than the insanity we all face. Maybe that’s the solution, which is why they’re pushing it so hard. How else are we supposed to fix half Asian guys who are so chopped they go a lifetime without a single woman ever expressing attraction? I mean the buck stopped at their dads.
Another day, another insecure son of an Asian woman and her white man posts on Reddit. There’s dozens of these posts a day. IRL, I see a lot of half Asians and they always have that same 1000 yard incel stare on their faces.
Not a mystery why: Asian women are seeking integration into whiteness and the sons are not white, so get confused, especially since their dads are generally the type of weirdo guys who white women rejected for their looks, so the sons have to carry the bad genes, plus their moms self hatred, with zero explanation or rationale, and are thrust into the world trying to just figure it out. So many of them go on this weird Wasian arc, desperately asking the world “do I look Asian or white?”
“Am I a superior, master race Wasian, mom? I must be, because my self hating Asian parent told me I’m special for being half Asian!”
Then reality hits and the world just sees some mid guy and the half-Asian goes from having a massive overblown ego about being half-white, to just being another incel chud with an obsession with being a real American man with all his guns and beards and military obsession.
It’s funny cause growing up, as I said, my mom seemed to hate me and I couldn’t figure out why, but as I get older I look back at old photos of myself where I had, at a younger age, convinced myself I looked more ambiguous or even white, and I look like 75% Asian, and now I realize my mom hated me cause I resembled her cheating dad or something. She used to go on these insane rambles about Pol Pot and communism and how great America and white people were, and now I realize that to her with my Asian bone structure I resembled all those cheating, communist Asian men she hated. Makes sense cause I had fine black / white women chasing me around looking to hook up and she was deep into this insane brand of ultra Christianity and feminism and desperately tried to turn my Wasian brother into her personal eunuch pet project.
I hate to be the one to be a doomer, but honestly with as obsessed Wasians are with their “master race status,” it’s actually completely spoken out of insecurity. Let’s be real about it: if your parents genes are chopped you’re gonna be chopped, and Wasians are so convinced they have amazing genes when in the real world, women look at hot guys, even Asian guys, and make split second decisions.
Unattractive white men are going for Asian women after being rejected by white / non-Asian women for their looks, or because they made up this idea that white women are “feminist;” (translation: not attracted to ugly men).
Asian woman marries white men because of visa / money / social standing / to escape being Asian / to escape “cheating Asian misogynists,” etc.
The son carries the same exact genes from his white father, making him…. yes, undesirable to women. That’s how it works.
I feel like it’s reaching fever pitch nowadays because an entire generation of rejected white men had kids with self-loathing Asian women.
Or are Asian people just obsessed with not being Asian and marrying white people and producing half Asian kids who they desperately NEED – not want – to be “good looking” in order to justify their mass colonial obsessions?
Or is pushing this “half Asians are all so good looking” just a form of pushing white supremacy against full Asians and other black or non-white people?
I’m gonna be using lots of bolded text for people since they don’t seem to get it.
The reality is, and yes, this is the harsh reality (I’m putting it in red here, to emphasize the point): if you’re physically attractive, speaking from a male perspective, and from my own experience, a woman, a girl, whatever, would have told you to your face in like, elementary school.
Yes, that was the first time someone told me this; women will just literally say “you’re hot“‘“ to your face. And no, not a single time did I hear “oh wow you’re so hot cause you’re mixed with white and Asian.” If anything, I was just lumped in with every other Asian guy.
And yes, I’ve had Asian women attack me in life, I’m guessing because they felt that I looked too much like their “player Asian dad” or whatever BS they had trauma with. And no, my “looks” never helped with extreme bullying or alienation I endured for being half Asian. It never helped with being made to feel like a perpetual outsider. I don’t even think I’m that hot, I just have big ass cheekbones that for some reason trigger peoples’ hindbrains to read “hot Asian guy,” but triggers negative reactions in self hating Asians who desperately want to join hu-white people land.
So what’s causing 6’2″ Wasian guys to wonder if they’re good looking or chopped, unless nobody is telling them to their faces?
Here’s the reality of it: you’re attractive if you have good bone structure. This is not race dependent. An unattractive white guy who had it with ‘white feminists’ (aka women who don’t want him because of his looks), and has a kid with a self-loathing Asian woman who desperate wants to be seen as white / to live in a white country – will NOT produce a magically attractive half-Asian child. And telling a child he should be viewed as super hot by default simply for being half-white doesn’t work, because in the real world, women take one look at you and are like “nah.”
That’s the real reason why so many half-Asians have massive overcompensation complexes, where most of the dudes wind up being pay-for-play finance bros trying to buy a white woman to “feel like a real American.” Because our parents relationship isn’t based on love, or even looks; it was based on utility and trying to get a visa or have higher status babies or whatever.
And yeah the only reason I’m the way I am is because I magically for some reason came out looking exactly like my Asian mom which made her hate me and made Asian women hate me for resembling those evil player misogynist Asian guys with standards.
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